To be secretly pleased that the girl who bullied me at school because I was fat is now fat herself?

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I hope this doesn?t make me sound like an awful person! At school, one of the girls in my class used to call me really horrible names and make school an unpleasant place to be when she bullied me because I was fat. At the time, she was slim.

Have seen some very recent pictures of her and she is now rather fat. AIBU to feel a little bit happy that she?s now fat? ( I?m not for a second saying I want anyone to bully her though so please don?t think that?s what I meant!). But it would be nice to think she would remember what she did to me and feel slightly sorry now she is the same position herself!

AIBU to feel pleased about it? She never apologized for how badly she treated for all those years at senior school. If I ever see her at a school reunion in the future etc, would be interesting to hear what she had to say me! A sorry wouldn?t go a miss!!

It does seem that the bullies peak early lookwise.

There is nothing sadder than someone who proclaims school to be "the best years of their life". I bet a lot of school bullies think it.

TheCrackFox - my DH said that the other day they develop early look rough sooner.
and I agree the best days of your life - you havent lived then !

I was bullied at school and every one of them have shit lifes or did have! A couple of the gang have been found in dodgy public toilets/squats with needles hanging out their arms, the ones that are still here have about 10 kids each to different fathers, all of whom knock them about, live on rough estates, no hope in life.
I on the other hand, despite falling pg in my teens, have a loving dp and ds, have a nice home and have an ok job, we're not loaded, but we get by and are happy.
YANBU to be pleased at that cows weight gain, enjoy it, and do rub it in if you ever see her!!!

I didn't just mean looks, maybe that's why they were bitches because they weren't beauties. Just brassy cows who thought they knew it all. Have been through it myself and with my daughter 3 years ago.