Everytime we meet up with PIL and SIL, at their and our house, they bundle up DD and take her into a different room. At first I didn't notice this so much, but when it was DDs birthday, and we had invited DPs parents, SIL and my parents, all three of them took her to a different room of the house (my house) with a camera. My mum was a bit surprised to say the least, as she was in the middle of opening my mum's presents!
So after another visit to PIL house yesterday, and another 3 hours of me sitting alone in one room, and the rest of the family in another- AIBU to be fed up with this? When I follow them all, they move on to another room. When we finally said it was time to go after an agonising visit for me, they disppeared with her all together. I asked DP to go and get her, he made a big deal of putting everything in the car first.
I know I am probably a bit protective over DD, but as I work full time, the weekends are the only time I get to fully enjoy with her. I don't understand why we cannot spend time together as a family and why they feel they have to cut me out like that.
DD is 14 months btw, and ever since she has been born there have been problems with PIL and SIL. For examle when we brought her home, less than 20 hours after birth, they arrived and stayed for 8 hours, consistentl insisting I go upstairs and sleep, so they could 'take over' and 'bond' with the baby. I politely refused but I don't think they ever forgave me!
AIBU?