someone who I dont know has organised a babyshower (not sure if this is tacky or not) for one of my oldest friends. She sent me a message via facebook, and it has totally pissed me off.
A - because I dont know her nor have i ever heard my friend mention her,
B - she wasnt involved in her wedding or her hen weekend that I organised and I was her Bridesmaid (Matron of honour)
C - Because I feel this was MY job to organise for her.
So, I sent a message back asking if the mum to be knew of this babyshower or if it was a surprise and that I may be able to attend.
so, AIBU to be hacked off about this and if so what can I do about it? I did consider saying actually I have organised one for ... and quickly send out an email to the people who I know.
Now, if this had been the mum to be's SIL or another friend who I have met via MTB I wouldnt be miffed at all...