to be monumentally annoyed with my husband?

[isittooearlyforgin]

my sister bought me a massage for my birthday. The last time I had time away from my children was my last birthday. My husband told me that in order to "earn" my massage (solo) time, I should put in house work hours in advance. I was outraged! I don't think he realises what i do at home in addition to working. He works really hard, and does lots of housework at home too but it really feels like he is some sort of competition with me over who does how much. Does anyone else feel like this?

thanks for the support cherrybaby, jasper and outnumbered!
did go for massage and husband was v contrite. try to work things out reasonably most of the time but just sometimes special action required. love husband v much and don't think he is a tit, just wanted to sound off about something he had said which had annoyed me - a lot!! This wasn't typical of his behaviour which is why is shocked me enough to make a post.
Its not sexist, steriotypical or generalisation to have a go about something that put your hackles up surely?

cherrybaby,you are deliciously obnoxious.thanks!

isittooearly - result!