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to expect the council to house us even though DH is sshh ..... working!!

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EverSoSlightlyStressed · 22/03/2010 11:18

Landlord has a court order for possession which runs out tomorrow. Council have basically said we will have to wait for the court bailiffs to physically kick us out and then go to them with our stuff in binbags before they will provide us with anything even emergency housing which is quite a stressful thought . It could be that we have no more than 7 days until we get kicked out depending on how long it takes for the LL to arrange the bailiffs to come. Obviously I have no problem with the LL wanting us out and feel terrible that he has been forced to take us to court but it is the only way the council will help us.

BTW we are not feckless or scroungers! We have 4 DCs - youngest 2mnths old. DH works around 48 hours a week and has a relatively good wage. We are not entitled to tax credits (child benefit only) and have struggled with the massive amount we have to pay in private rent but scraped by without too much hassle. LL decided to sell house last year, we knew we would have problems renting again as we are both had to go bankrupt (1 year ago) since we moved into this house so our credit is shot and no chance of ever having a mortgage again . Current letting agents said they would not be able to rent to us again because of this as we have no one to be guarantor even though they have had no problems with us and nor will any other agent. There are no properties being advertised by individuals that would not need a credit check round here (except for shared house rooms) and anyway all 3 bed properties are like gold dust so we are in deep shit!!

The council keep telling us that as DH works we should find our own property. We keep telling them that we can't for reasons detailed above. It seems that if he was not working and we were on benefits, they would bend over backwards to help but as he is a taxpayer, they will not do anything. Is it me or is this a bit arse about face??

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Morloth · 22/03/2010 14:43

I think you do AnyFucker you may now have your Council house. Just call up the Council (anyone will do) and let them know and you will immediately be placed in a top of the line McMansion at your earliest convenience.

Scardypants · 22/03/2010 14:45

I'm in Ireland but was born in Lancaster (my single mother was banished to prevent shame being cast on her family ) so can I come home or wot!!!???

Morloth · 22/03/2010 14:47

hmmmmm I am not sure Scardypants, surely the fact that you were born in Lancaster (which I assume is in the UK) dilutes your claim to "foreigness" somewhat?

What colour are your pubes?

Scardypants · 22/03/2010 14:47

I've me bin liners packed an' all

Scardypants · 22/03/2010 14:48

No pubes but I can draw some on. Who'll be checkin?

tethersend · 22/03/2010 14:48

If you don't win council housing, I've got the number for Take a break, AnyFucker. I think you may be a double page spread.

JackBauer · 22/03/2010 14:48

I only have a ginger DD. I have no chance.

AnyFucker · 22/03/2010 14:51

scardy...you have no pubes ?

I think you are on the the wrong thread, lovey

there is another scrap discussion going on elsewhere on MN about such a thing

Morloth · 22/03/2010 14:51

Scardypants "No pubes but I can draw some on. Who'll be checkin?"

THEM. I suggest either ginger or possibly dark brown to strengthen your claim.

LadyBiscuit · 22/03/2010 14:52

Bollocks, AF beat me I wonder if it's worth chopping off a limb to overtake her ...

Scardypants · 22/03/2010 14:54

Tears in eyes. Fuck it, have to do the school run, dd out in 7 minutes.

Morloth · 22/03/2010 14:54

Hey, if we are going to start down the "no pubes" discussion, can I link this photo again?

ShadeofViolet · 22/03/2010 14:55

Who will check it isnt a die job - some people would do anything for a council house!

ShadeofViolet · 22/03/2010 14:55

Dye not die

AnyFucker · 22/03/2010 14:57

right, I am going to take pity on tiredmum here < faces down shocked expressions from rest of thread >

I don't actually think she did mean to cause offence

A lot of people hold those kinds of viewpoints..it is certainly not unusual to do so

the Daily Mail, The Sun and other esteemed media sources push this kinda reactionary bullshit at us constantly, until we start to believe it

or perhaps we see the odd case of perceived favouritism going on (I certainly have...I work in the NHS and it is probably more than my job is worth to tell you what goes on )

unfortunately, misguidedness in this day and age is no longer an excuse for ignorance

so tiredmum, I think you didn't realise how offensive what you said really was

and you have deserved the negative reaction you got for it, intended or not

maybe the best thing would be to leave the thread and this will be tomorrow's fish and chip paper (insert appropriate metaphor of your choice)

AnyFucker · 22/03/2010 14:59

now back to the hilarity

morloth...where did you get a picture of my fanjo ??????

you must be some kind of stalker or summat

AnyFucker · 22/03/2010 15:00

ladyB...chop off your head, that should sort it

youremindmeofthebabe · 22/03/2010 15:00

at morloth.

LadyBiscuit · 22/03/2010 15:02

Yes but if I do that AF then they're not going to know I'm foreign are they? Tsk, as you're brown you clearly hadn't thought that through.

Morloth

Morloth · 22/03/2010 15:02

If that is a photo of your fanjo AnyFucker there isn't anything LB can do to trump you, up to and including cutting off her head.

Morloth · 22/03/2010 15:03

They can check your pubes LadyBiscuit.

tethersend · 22/03/2010 15:06

Means testing on a whole new level...

LadyBiscuit · 22/03/2010 15:07

Ah good thinking Morloth - my poor foreign pubes, growing in a non-British style

Tiredmumno1 · 22/03/2010 15:07

Thanks for remembering me anyfucker, and i have apologised

I am very sorry to all of you, i may have misworded some previous threads, for which i AM sincerely sorry for. Maybe i shall try to engage brain next time. I think its stuck in reverse

Morloth · 22/03/2010 15:09

I have straight pubes - does that mean I am back in the game?

I really should get up and do the ironing, shouldn't I?

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