I'm 30 this year and it's provoked some serious life-evaluation. I used to have a really close knit group of friends at uni(nearly 10 years ago) and we all went our own way but keep in touch via email, FB etc (we're scattered all over the world). I met my DH who is 7 years older than me 5 years ago and we got married and had two boys in short order. I was accepted into 'his' friends group which is now the default 'our' group. My oldest son is almost 4, the younger is almost 1, I've been in a great but demanding job for 4 months, all good.
Except that I'm spending more and more time avoiding 'our' friends as I feel like we have less and less in common. We're the only parents of 2 kids, (and only 1 of about 3 couples of a group of 20 WITH kids). A lot of our friends are in couples but childfree. The problem is they always want to stay at home and talk about the same stuff and I want to be out enjoying life! I cannot face another evening where you can predict every conversation. DH is less bothered as he and his friends are roleplayers so always have a common thread. I don't have that (roleplayer widow).
So am I being unreasonable? Should I make more of an effort or just let it drift? I'm happy to socialise with DH, just less keen to do it alone!