Story.
My brother has always been very tricky, always taking offense and falling out with people, imaging slights and holding grudges for years.
He doesn't really have a relationship with anyone else in the family now, but I have always stuck by him, listened to him moan for hours (and I mean hours) on the phone etc etc. He is never really that interested in me or my ds.
A few years ago I lent him money to help him buy his house, not a lot, about 2K, and he paid it all back (not in a lump sum, but I was ok with that).
More recently I lent him another 3K to help him out again (bearing in mind I am a single parent, so it was out of my savings). I told him in August I needed the money back by december, and he asked for my bank details, which I gave him. He didn't want to do a lump sum, but I had loaned it to him on the understanding I had it all back in one go.
He started being all difficult but finally agreed. wanted to do test transfers etc etc, which I just ignored.
December comes and goes, no money. Finally calls today asking when I want the money, and I said, well now. then he got started getting angry at me because "he knew I would be difficult and expect it all at the drop of a hat"
And it now denying that I ever gave him my details! Called me mad, and put the phone down on me!
WTF?
He is a doctor, btw, not married with no kids.
I sent him a text saying I thought he was being very ungrateful and rude, but just to send me the money, and he is now texting me saying I am making an issue out of nothing.
Am IBU?
I lent him money I could ill-afford, He agreed to pay it back by a certain date, didn't do it, blames me for not giving him my bank details and is calling me mad!
To honest, I just can't be bothered anymore.