I am 40+5 with our first. DH has been on annual leave for the last 10 days, despite being told that there was no point in taking leave before the baby came as it was likely to be at least a week late. He was convinced she would be on time or early so refused to be told.
He is driving me absolutely mad. He is completely incapable of entertaining himself and when he is at home is constantly demanding my attention/that I provide entertainment for him. We have been out every day since he has been on his leave and I am finding it exhausting and I refused to go out yesterday; all I wanted to do was sit at home in my dressing gown and surf the web. He went down the allotment for the afternoon after kicking up a great deal of fuss that I didn't want to go down there with him and keep him company. He has just got up and asked "what are we doing today, I can't stand being cooped up in this house". It took all my will not to punch him. I have got to the point now where I don't want to "go out and do anything", I want to stay at home or maybe pop out for a quick cup of tea. His ideas of "things to do" always involve massive great hikes (he thought I might like to walk 7 miles each way to the cinema yesterday)
AIBU to think
a) Serves you right, you were told not to go on leave yet
b) I am the one that is heavily pregnant so we will do what I chuffing want for a change
c) you are 30, surely you can entertain yourself
d) why don't you just go back to work, get out of my face then we will both be happy