OH doesn't live with me. He went out Sat night with friends. I'd asked him to text when he got home so I knew he was safe. Woke up Sun morning, text at %am to say he was in safe.
Sun I find out that he'd gone to his flat at 5am, text me, then decided to go to a 'party' as some of his mates where there. Thge party was at a girls house, that was a friend of a friend. I say what time did you go to sleep, he says when it got light. I say where did you sdleep, he says in bed with the girl that lived there and his mate, but he made sure he didn't sleep next to the girl.
Apparantly I should not be upset about that and should take a 'grown up approach' that it is possible for opp sex to sleep in the same bed without them getting up to anything. I think that if he had any respect for me (and half a brain cell) he would have realised I would not find this acceptable and would not have done it.
FWIW I don't believe that anything happened, but thats not the point.
So AIBU to be upset and hurt?