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to be annoyed at DH spending so much money

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NoseyNooNoo · 10/12/2009 22:29

We've recently moved into rented whilst we wait to find a house to buy. Only a few houses have come up in area but they tend to be £25-50k over our limit.

Our rented house is 1.2 miles from train station up/down a very steep hill. DH has talked about getting a car. In the meantime he has unilaterally hired a car at £20 per day to run himself the 1.2 miles to the station. He also pays £3 per day for parking. I suggested perhaps he get a taxi but he says this would be too unreliable.

I had started to think buying himself a little run about would be the cheaper option but tonight saw the details of the car he has in mind - an 09 5-door Fiesta priced £11k. I had expected him to be spending a third of that tops.

Given that we can't quite afford to buy the type of house we want am I being mean to think he doesn't need to spend £11k on a car plus £700+ parking p.a. plus insurance for a new car.

To put in context I drive a 05 Honda Jazz.

I'm a SAHM so he earns the money but I don't think that is wholly relevant and to be fair he has never raised that.

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tiredfeet · 12/12/2009 00:15

YANBU, I walk that far to the station and back every day, and at the other end to work too. If it is really really wet/ I'm ill/ tired/ have lots of bags then I get a taxi or DH picks me up. I sort of understand his concern about taxis not being reliable, but when I was ill I just booked them to get me to the station about 5-10 mins early, so there was a bit of leeway, and actually if they know you're going to the station they're normally pretty good at being on time

It seems a shame to let something like this take a big chunk out of your house deposit

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