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My letter to Sainsbury's about this morning's cafe trip...

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Bathsheba · 10/12/2009 11:16

Dear Sainsbury's Customer Service,

Looking back on it, it was NOT a good idea to take my 3 year old daughter and myself to the cafe at the Aberdeen berryden store this morning. We've been there before, and frankly we should know how bad it is.

At 9:20am there wasn't a clean table in the place. The cafe was staffed by the world's most bored looking young man, and a lady whose main responsibility was wandering around holding large pans of water. The previous customers HAD tried, and had in the main put all their dirty dishes back on their trays, but every table was either dirty, or had a tray on it waiting to be picked up. Frankly given one of those wheely tray holders, my daughter and I could have cleared the place in about 2 minutes.

There was a 15 minute queue in an empty cafe (15 minutes equating to 3 people being served) whilst our young man wandered aimlessly staring around him, trying to serve at the counter but not really managing. (Apologies, I can't give you any names as none of the staff were wearing name badges).

Finally we were able to order. I requested a decaff, skinny vanilla latte. Amazingly I saw bored-young-man squirting the vanilla syrup in it but as if by magic there was absolutely no evidence in the finished article - I suspect more than half a squirt is needed (and at 30p for the syrup I think I'm entitled to more than half a squirt). I can also tell that when I was given was not decaff - I'm very heavily pregnant and avoiding strong caffeine so decaff was important to me - I can tell by the affect on myself and my baby that I was not given decaff coffee. I would have brought up the issue with the vanilla syrup but the 20 minute wait to get to the front of the queue was more than I could have coped with - also by that time bored-boy had wandered off...

We treated ourselves to cakes - the most insipid pale, stale pancakes for my daughter and a danish for me. (I turned down the pineapple tart that was on display as it appeared to be accompanied by a HUGE fly that was resident on it the entire time I was there - it takes a lot of talent to still have flies somewhere as cold as Aberdeen in December so I suspect somewhere there is a happily breeding community). I had to practically beg for some frozen butter for my daughter's pancakes which then wouldn't spread and the pancakes were stale enough to crumble under the pressure of attempted spreading.

All in all it was NOT a treat - it was punishment that I appeared to be charged £6+ for. Again, there is absolutely no point in complaining as the manager is impossible to locate and the other staff are bored, ineffectual and aimless. Unfortunately this is an ongoing problem at Berryden and every time I think of giving the cafe another try, my disappointment is just further reinforced..

.........

Bit too strong..?? (yep, before anyone says it, I've got nothing else in my life to worry about this morning...)

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Bigbadmummy · 10/12/2009 11:25

Not too strong at all. Well worded and constructive.

My FIL uses the expression "I am trying to be a customer"

Shocking and I hope you send it.

Libra · 10/12/2009 11:26

Oh I'd send it to them!!
(And add that Garthdee is pretty crap at cleaning up tables as well!)

Bathsheba · 10/12/2009 11:31

Garthdee is appallingly bad at tables....Garthdee also has a secret menu - there is the boards that are standard Sainsbury's issue menus, but at the till there is a hand written note every day of what you can ACTUALLY have as thats all they have...so don;t bother reading the menu - just wait until you get to the till and then ask the staff what they want you to have....

I do like the "trying to be a customer" line....

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ChrisMissWooWoo · 10/12/2009 11:35

lovely letter, very amusing for us to read, not so amusing for you to experience mind you.

do send

Bathsheba · 10/12/2009 11:36

Maybe we should organise a meet up at Sainsbury's cafe so we can share the love....or the lack of it...!!!

I promise it will be sent..!

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Libra · 10/12/2009 11:37

The only good thing about Garthdee is the carpark. I loathe the car park at Berryden.

(God this is parochial!!)

I didn't know that about the menu at Garthdee. Can I ask how you rate the cafe at the Danestone Tesco?

Prinpo · 10/12/2009 11:38

Fantastic - perfectly pitched. Definitely send it and send a copy to your local paper. I share your pain. Supermarket cafs can be a godsend when you have little kids as you can dose them up, pop to the loo and then they're good to go for your shopping trip. Yours sounds particularly bad. It's not quite sorting out the Middle East, but if you can single-handedly force them to up their game then you'll be one happy woman! Let us know their response.

NorbertDentressAngel · 10/12/2009 11:40

I love the "it takes a lot of talent to still have flies somewhere as cold as Aberdeen in December"

I've been to Aberdeen. It was very cold.

GetOrfMoiLand · 10/12/2009 11:41

I feel your pain.

Not Scots Sainsbos, but the one at Barnwood in Gloucester is just as bad. It is generally staffed by two vague individuals and the tables never seem to get cleared, and the floor (why is it never cleaned up?) is always covered in muck. It's vile.

I don't know why I ever go in there. Oh yes, I sometimes treat myself to one of their all day brunches after the gym.

GetOrfMoiLand · 10/12/2009 11:42

Great letter by the way.

PurpleEglu · 10/12/2009 11:46

Letter is brilliantly written, and did make me laugh. I look forward to hearing their response

Bathsheba · 10/12/2009 11:48

Oh Tesco Danestone is a FANTASTIC cafe...it used to be a bit crap but they have a new manager in and he is lovely...its a great cafe and its always clean...!! Trust me, I'd have gone there as its our usual haunt but I was actually in berryden for the joy that is the Post Office...

My first thought about the fly was a simple "that is a huge fly"...(honestly it was so big and so still - defacating on this pineappletart - that it looked like a joke shop fake fly...)...and it was only afterwards that I thought there must be a fairly local large breeding community of flies for such a prime specemin to be on display in December in Aberdeen (where my car said it was 2 degrees C this morning)....they aren;t coming from outside in the community...

I promsie I'll let everyone know what they get back to me with....honestly, give me 10 minutes with them and I'll have them whipped into shape....

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GetOrfMoiLand · 10/12/2009 11:51

Am I really odd that this thread really makes me want to go to Scotland where it is all lovely and chilly.

choccyp1g · 10/12/2009 11:55

Wonderfully written letter. No doubt it will soon appear as a full page article in several national newspapers with a few key details changed. Just hope they pay you royalties [no chance emoticon]

Libra · 10/12/2009 11:55

Thanks for the recommendation for Danestone!

Unfortuntely I work at Garthdee, so always get enticed in there on my way home. Quite like their checkout staff, though. Quite a few of them have a personality.

Bathsheba · 10/12/2009 12:02

GetOrfMoiLand - go on...come to Scotland...Its actually a fantastic day in Aberdeen, its really clear and bright and crisply cold....

Days like this I love...its days when its cold because its really windy and there is rain in your face all day this it is miserable....but today is just lovely

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BalloonSlayer · 10/12/2009 12:02

Fab.

Also love the line "takes a lot of talent to still have flies somewhere as cold as Aberdeen in December so I suspect somewhere there is a happily breeding community). "

crankytwanky · 10/12/2009 12:04

I wish I could be bothered had the time to write sarcy letters of displeasure.

You will hopefully get something nice from the manager by way of apology.

GetOrfMoiLand · 10/12/2009 12:04

I would love to go to Scotland

itwascertainlyasurprise · 10/12/2009 12:10

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Bathsheba · 10/12/2009 12:12

One thing I will say in my defense is that I'm also very frequent at writing positive letters of commendation to places that are really good (like our local tesco)...

They tend not to be quite so sarky

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DoesntChristmasDragOn · 10/12/2009 12:13

"I requested a decaff, skinny vanilla latte"

Ponce!

LoveBeingAMummyKissingSanta · 10/12/2009 12:17

My local one is shit too, DD sarnies were stale on top and wet underneth, the replacement was even worse. The cafe manager was called to refund the order and didn't apoligise or even look at me once. I made a point of telling him what i though giving him some feedback on his customer service skills and then spoke to the store manager.

Bathsheba · 10/12/2009 12:18

DoesntChristmasDragOn - I know...I deserve it...

If I'm in Starbucks I also ask for extrahot and other poncey stuff but I had to reapt it 5 times to Bored-Boy (who actually got all of it wrong as he also used full fat milk...) so I gave up...

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Bathsheba · 10/12/2009 12:20

LoveBeingAMummyKissingSan... - I have actually spoken to the manager beofre - they ahd no soup (standard lunchtime offering I'd think) at 11:15 one day....

But unfortunately that just now means I know which one is the manager and I've actually heard Bored-Boy being really nasty and disrespectful to him in front of customers, so I know any approach to him is completely pointless.

He did wander in at around 9:40 this morning....I suspect he was due in prior to this time...

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