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to not want to write christmas cards from ds to his pre-school 'friends'?

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Eddas · 07/12/2009 14:36

DS is 2.6, he goes to pre-school twice a week and this morning i've received lots of cards to him from the other children. That's great but he hasn't got a clue what they are or who they're from as he's 2!!

We got a letter home listing all the children's names and I think it's made people think they should send in cards

I have enough to do atm without writing cards on his behalf for people he doesn't even know really so AIBU to just pick a few kids he mentions and send them?

Is it me or is this a bit OTT, surely parents have better things to do?

Also, I overheard some of dd's classmates mum's talking this morning, saying they'd be writing cards for their dc(year 1 children) I'm making dd write them all she's 5.6 and once I tell her how to spell the names she'll be able to write them all herself won't she?

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SKYTVADDICT · 09/12/2009 12:46

We also got a list from pre-school and DS is 2.6. He never mentions anyone and I really don't think I shall be sending any other than to the helpers.

The DDs have always written their own too.

bibbitybobbityhat · 09/12/2009 12:46

It will take you about 10 minutes OP; I don't think yabu to not want to do it, but it really is a teeny tiny chore in the squillions of other things that need to be done at Christmas .

Eddas · 09/12/2009 12:53

no offence meant but I have about 25 presents to get, loads of cards to write from the family, 40 hours to make up at work,15 hours a week normal working hours at work, a VAT return to compile, a CIS return to do, 3 tax returns to deal with, pre-school accounts to prepare and file, help at pre-school party on fri and a million other things to do, so 10 mins maybe but if you can't tell writing cards to people ds hasn't a clue who they are isn't on top of my priority list.

and yes I do realise if i'm that busy mn isn't the best place to be but I am allowed to have some me time

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bibbitybobbityhat · 09/12/2009 13:00

None taken . Its alright, I don't need anyone to enlighten me on how busy this time of year can be.

mathanxiety · 09/12/2009 16:05

It's the cards done by all the others that went to the bin, 2rebecca. Not being mean, just trying to keep the house from becoming a fire hazard . 5 DCs x average 25 children per class = a huge pile of cards that gets taken out of the schoolbags the day before returning to school in January (= bin).
I have so much kept that DCs drew or wrote from when they were small it's not funny. I love it all and hope they'll enjoy seeing it when they're adults.

StarlightStarbrightSKYTVtonite · 16/12/2009 15:21

Well I didn't send any cards(sent home made bags of sweets for the staff) and he has come home with loads today - one even had a chocolate coin in it! I asked him if he knew or played with "W" and he says he doesn't. Oh well - some people must have all the time in the world

heliotrope · 16/12/2009 16:18

Oh but it is sweet for them to post them into the christmas post box! I wasn't going to bother but am having a christmassy moment.!

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