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To be pissed off that next door's ds' girlfriend is yelping like a terrier during sex sessions and keeping ds awake?

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TAFKAtheUrbanDryad · 01/12/2009 20:48

Next door neighbours have a 15 (poss 16) year old ds, who has his girlfriend over when his parents are out. His bedroom is right next door to ds' and I can blatantly hear them shagging. Which, y'know, is fine, but the girl is so loud! Not to mention the fact that i think the bed is up against the wall so we can all hear it banging.

In normal circumstances I would just go into another room, put some loud music on and wait for it to stop, but it always seems to be around ds' bedtime, and goes on for hours! Cue ds going, "What's that noise mama? I can't sleep, what's that noise?"

Not sure whether to say anything to neighbours, and if so, what?? Presumably he has his girlfriend over with their blessing (although possibly not shagging with their blessing, I don't know) so I can't exactly go round and say, "Oi, tell your son's girlfriend to Shut Up - and learn to fake her orgasms quietly!"

OP posts:
Doodleydoo · 03/12/2009 23:16

I reckon you say:

Hello mrs neighbour, my apologies for coming round as I don't want to seem difficult but sometimes when you are out there is lots of noise from what I can only assume is your sons bedroom, I wouldn't be worried but sometimes it sounds like screaming/ screeching and it is slightly scaring my ds. I was just wondering if you could ask your ds to keep the video games volume down or the tv, or if his friends could keep the noise down a little bit in the evening.

Be all sweetness and light!

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