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to be totally bored hearing this same old trite trotted out

216 replies

curryfreak · 20/11/2009 20:44

Get this all the time from parents of boys.
How difficult they are, how much more of a handful they can be in relation to girls, how much they eat in comparision to girls ffs,- who cares.
The one though, that has been in vogue for a while,(courtesy of daily mail headlines and the like) is how terrible boys are faring in the education system, and how these dreadful female teachers are feminising the poor little mites,- how they have no male role models, because there are so few male teachers (particularly in primary schools)
Yawn yawn yawn...
Simple facts are girls have been on the backfoot for years. Nobody gave a toss, when they were lagging behind educationally, and in some cases activly discourgaed from taking subjects which were considered male dominated.
Boys are having to wake up to the fact that their sense of entitlement is no longer acceptable.
So, thoughts.

OP posts:
larks35 · 20/11/2009 22:35

bamboostalks - I agree that teaching is a low-paid profession but know a few lawyers who see teaching as a far more valid profession than their own, despite earning 4 times as much as I do. (some of them didn't even manage a 2:2 either)

cakeywakey · 20/11/2009 22:35

Hear hear Scottish Mummy!

paddyclamp · 20/11/2009 22:35

is it really bamboostalks??? well i have a 2:1 in maths as do all of my department...maybe we could have made more money doing other careers but you know what, good teachers don't enter the profession to make money...i love my job but i don't do it for the money...the pay is actually quite decent when you go through the threshold but that's irrelevant

stillenacht · 20/11/2009 22:36

Teachers should have good degree classification and all of that scottishmummy - have seen some PGCE students (as a mentor) down the years with quite shocking subject knowledge.

BikiniBottom · 20/11/2009 22:36

Just because education was or was not different in the 1950s is irrelevant. Education is very far from perfect and improvements need to be made.

pooexplosions · 20/11/2009 22:36

YABU. And pretty damn nasty. And rather anti-feminist.

cakeywakey · 20/11/2009 22:38

I love thefact that curryfreak has now disappeared. I'm going to do the same and will remember to give any of their future posts a wide berth.

displayuntilbestbefore · 20/11/2009 22:38

"Get this all the time from parents of boys"

Yes, dear, of course you do, it must be so tiresome

curryfreak · 20/11/2009 22:39

Dear o dear, such a sensitive lot. Cant really cope wirth a genuine difference of opinion can you?
Nighty night.

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displayuntilbestbefore · 20/11/2009 22:41

did you know you accidentally put the word "genuine" in that sentence?

scottishmummy · 20/11/2009 22:41

no hang about curryhead,dazzle us with your bus stop wisdom

perfectstorm · 20/11/2009 22:45

larks - possibly not, actually. Girls always did better in primary school, but then lost that lead in secondary. This was why the 11+ exam was weighted against girls, and grammar school places reserved in greater numbers for boys - it was felt to be fairer, in the circs, if the mark required for a boy to get a grammar school place was lower than that for a girl. Comprehensives slowly whittled that lead away, and as mixed sex grammar schools now don't apply positive discrimination in favour of boys it actually wouldn't be surprising if the girls outnumbered them, as would always have been the case before.

I don't know why boys tend not to do as well all the way up to degree level, now, and I don't think anyone really does. Though the fact fewer and fewer people are taking science/engineering courses may have something to do with it - they're still very male dominated subject areas, whereas law and medicine and so on are increasingly female. (Interestingly this performance gap isn't present at Oxbridge, or wasn't when they researched it a few years ago. Men tend to either do dreadfully or brilliantly, with male clusters at the 3rd and 1st levels, and women falling far more into 2.1 territory. The reason usually given is that they tend to "take risks" - commonly known as "bullshit" - in exams. Sometimes this pays off; if a lot of work underlays it it becomes flair and impresses. If it doesn't, it becomes a massacre of misplaced self-belief.)

bamboostalks · 20/11/2009 22:45

paddyclamp You are in a minority, the % of maths teachers with 2:2 or lower is higher than for teachers of any other subject.

piscesmoon · 20/11/2009 22:46

YABU

larks35 · 20/11/2009 22:48

I've quite enjoyed this thread despite not liking the original post, and several others. It is a topic that, as a teacher and a new parent, I think about a lot. Cheers all!

stillenacht · 20/11/2009 22:49

interesting perfectstorm- makes total sense to me

paddyclamp · 20/11/2009 22:51

says who?

paddyclamp · 20/11/2009 22:51

maybe that's cos maths and sciences are bloody difficult degrees

winestein · 20/11/2009 22:54

Good debating skills there, curryfreak. Hats off and all that.

bamboostalks · 20/11/2009 22:56

Not disputing they are difficult, although that is subjective in the extreme. Many talented mathematicians struggle with English or art. It's all about aptitude.
The Teacher Training Agency says so.

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 20/11/2009 22:56

The OP seems to like stirring up controversy and then disappearing I'm fairly new and have spotted this . Her tone is always very confrontational and when she has stirred things up she vanishes . Just an observation

StayFrosty · 20/11/2009 22:58

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whoisasking · 20/11/2009 22:59

My favourite bit was that when the OP got REALLY angry and when it all turned out...had only been posting for a day

stillenacht · 20/11/2009 22:59

bamboostalks - are you a teacher? I do agree with you - it is all subjective . I am sure there are 'easier' science and maths degrees out there just as there are 'easier' degrees within my subject area and as I say I have witnessed some PGCE students with very weak subject knowledge over the last 10 years or so.

winestein · 20/11/2009 22:59

Good spot hobnobs.. but I think I am speaking for many here that her input has been so, er, trite, that no one is particularly stirred. More bored