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To discover a really experienced child minder charges half what my Bulgarian cleaner does....

112 replies

nigelslaterfan · 17/11/2009 15:05

I mean £8 an hour for the latter, 25 years old.
£4 for the former who I understand has nursery qualifications as well.

It just seems surprising. I guess the CM can have a bunch of kids at once but still, seems wrong somehow!

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Katymac · 17/11/2009 15:09

nigelslaterfan I could kiss you - Thanks

squeaver · 17/11/2009 15:11

Is her nationality relevant to this observation?

SausageRocket · 17/11/2009 15:12

why is it relevant that cleaner is Bulgarian and is 25 ?

And no, you are not being unreasonable to discover the difference

saadia · 17/11/2009 15:13

that's what I was thinking squeaver, but yanbu nigelslaterfan. OTOH you also have to factor in supply and demand and competition.

ruddynorah · 17/11/2009 15:14
Hmm
nigelslaterfan · 17/11/2009 15:21

No, well said, her age and nationality is not relevant at all!
She's rather grand and irritating and has a load of wealthy clients now in posher areas than ours and I think only wants to clean the houses of grander people! I don't call her any more because when she does come she just tells me how to run my life and I want to murder her or drown myself!!!

My dh said I could take dd to CM and clean the house myself and save money in theory!

I guess I mean her age and experience is much less than the CM who has proper qualifications and years of experience and testimonials as long as your arm.

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diddl · 17/11/2009 15:30

But I think people will pay 8 pounds per hour to have their house cleaned, but would not be happy to pay the same per hour to have their child looked after.

Because I think for a lot cleaner=luxury, childcare=essential.

People often seem to want to pay as little as possible for childcare.

nigelslaterfan · 17/11/2009 15:39

But that is mad of us isn't it?
There has to be something wrong with that mindset don't you think?

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squeaver · 17/11/2009 15:47

People who can afford to pay £4/hour for childcare may not be able to afford to pay £8/hour for a cleaner (or childcare or anything else).

diddl · 17/11/2009 15:47

Yes I do think it´s disgusting-is that too strong a word?-for people to want to pay as little as possible as for something so important.

But I suppose someone working needs to be earning more pr hour than the person they are paying to childmind.

I also think it has come about by mothers having to work to pay mortgage/bills-even if they don´t want to.

AvadaKedavra · 17/11/2009 15:49

But then you wouldn't be wanting a cleaner for 40 hours a week like you would a CM would you?

diddl · 17/11/2009 15:53

That of course is the other thing, AvadaKedavra.

But you would thik that a cm would charge more per hour as they are more skilled.

I suppose they take more than one child so are earning per child per hour.

Divatheshopaholic · 17/11/2009 15:53

i would have cm for 4 hours and clean my house in 2 hours and relax for 2 hours, how is that

diddl · 17/11/2009 15:55

How much would a nanny cost who is in sole charge & therefore the child is getting individual attention?

Mooncupflowethover · 17/11/2009 16:02

Like diddl says, a cleaner is a luxury, a childminder is not.

Mooncupflowethover · 17/11/2009 16:03

Oh, and £8 is pretty cheap!!

Lymond · 17/11/2009 16:04

I agree with diddl. If you had two dc, the price would be the same.

That being said, when I used to have a nanny and a cleaner, it did feel wrong that my nanny earned £9 per hour gross and my cleaner earned £10 per hour self employed. My nanny spoke fluent English, and had qualifications. All my cleaner had a friend who spoke English who I could text with instructions who would then relay them to her in Hungarian.

We've moved since then - new cleaner is still £10 ph, but at least speaks English!

NaccetyMac · 17/11/2009 16:06

My CM charged £4.20 per hour. She had my 3, plus another three after school. She therefore earns about £25 per hour gross for out of school hours. Which is more than me as a teacher.

I think that's pretty reasonable!

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nigelslaterfan · 17/11/2009 16:12

All fair points.

I just hate my former cleaner, sorry for mentioning her nationality, that was unedifying of me.

It's a balance of skilled and unskilled labour and how you judge those definitions. Also supply and demand and you can only clean one house at a time. It's all true.

Thanks!

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Morloth · 17/11/2009 16:18

I dunno, I find childcare pretty easy really. Cleaning the house seems totally beyond me however.

ClaireDeLoon · 17/11/2009 16:19

The cleaner will have more downtime too, moving between jobs, as well as having transport costs to pay.

SausageRocket · 17/11/2009 16:29

Yeah, what about your kids teachers who look after 25+ kids every day and get paid around 50p per child per hour.

madusa · 17/11/2009 16:34

but your cleaner can only clean one home at a time and charge for one home at a time.

A childminder can have several children at once and charge for each one.