i probably am and i know you lovely ladies will come up with some great alternatives but it really seems the easiest option.
story: OH (navy) is due home in just over 2 weeks after being away since ds2 was 11 days old (6 months ago). so mum (midwife, dunno if thats relevant or not) said brought home a load of leaflets on different contraception a few weeks ago. Oh and i had already decided to use persona and condoms for a few reasons. i dont want to take anything that will affect my hormones especially as OH will only be home every other weekend at most from jan. i get really bad mood swings and dont want to make them worse. the thing is, my mum wouldnt even consider persona and condoms (when ovulating) to be contraception. so she spoke on my behalf to a friend of hers and has decided for me that i should get the mirena coil. all this without discussing it with me. so now she is pressuring me to go and get it and saying im leaving it too late, and i just feel like telling her to p*ss right off and mind her bloody business. of course i would never do that. but if i did tell her that actually i'm not getting the coild, she wouldnt let it drop, i know she wouldnt. so would it be unreasonable to tell her ive got it when i havent?