I'd be surprised if any of you think I'm BU but want to clear my head before he comes home from work! DH went out with a few mates last night and said he wouldn't be too late as he had work today, I was expecting midnight ish. However, he has on several occasions let me down by rolling in 3am ish totally incoherent. Don't get me wrong I go out too at least once a month and occasionally stay out until 1 or 2 ish, but I never take drugs and don't get completely wasted on alcohol either! I feel strongly that now we're a family, days wasted lying around on the couch due to a hangover are pretty much over, the odd lazy day after a birthday party/wedding etc fine but as a regular occurence, I don't think so!
Anyway last night woke up for the loo at 2am and realised DH wasn't home, rang him and had to cajole him home, when he got in he was totally out of it and acting very strangely! He admitted he'd had some magic mushrooms with some of his friends and was tripping his head off, he seemed quite scared, so I made him safe and went back to bed. This unusual and the 1st time he's taken anytyhing like this for years, he a really good dad and DH normally but does go a bit wild on a night out and goes OTT.
However, what's made this worse is I've had a really shite couple of weeks with my brother who has been a serious drug addict off and on for years, My parents have more or less disowned him, he's signed off work and its been awful! My DH seemed to be looking after me and supporting me but then he goes out and takes drugs!! I feel like leaving him and this town and focusing on being a mum without worrying about bloody drugs! Well done if you've read this!
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to be beyond LIVID with my DH for getting 'off his face' last night? [sad]
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chosenone · 24/10/2009 13:34
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