to object to paying a donantion towards ingredients for baking at nursery when dd can't even eat the finished product.

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well am I?
They are baking bread at nursery, they said they don't want dd to feel left out so she has been told that she can give hers to mummy or grandma, she is coeliacs.
Anyway I actually have better things to worry about but I did think it is a bit off to ask for a contribution to the ingredients when they can't even be bothered to find gf ingredients for her. and if they were willing to do gf bread with her I would have happily bought all the ingredients myself.

I would talk to nursery. Are they aware that activities HAVE to be inclusive - this is not choice but set in disability discrimination legislation. Some places are far better than others than being inclusive.

With some pre thinking the issues would never arise. Schools / nursery would ensure all activities are inclusive of all the pupils. This isn't a "problem child" but a "problem nursery" - it is nursery that is excluding.

Talk to nursery and hopefully you will get a positive reaction and it has been a genuine mistake. If they are hostile I would ask nursery if it is Ofsted or LA Head of Inclusion that you need to be talking to.

Attitudes need to change. Sorry you are having to go through this.