to ask a few of you out there to give me a hug

[Unlikelyamazonian]

please? Feeling needy and shit

((((HUG))))

Have a hug. And .... a glass of wine.

What's happened, UA?

here's one from me we all feel needy at times - and shit happens - frequently. Hope you feel better soon.

Hugs and a nice cup of tea.

sorry - ((((((hug)))))) - last one was a bit spikey!

so what's up?

sunburn elbows her way to the front and rugby tackles unlikely to the ground and plants huge kiss and huge hug around her.

there you go. xxxxxx

Big, huge hug and chocolate (if I could send it)!

!

Feel better soon. x x

god I love mumsnet. Thanks people. Thanks so much. it helps. Just feeling shit. Holidays ending, had lovely friends to stay and now all coming to an end. Sometimes gets to me being so alone. have added new pic of ds as he is so bloody gorgeous and I am starting to miss him when he's gone to bed.

Also dont know if I can re-heat a chilled home-made burger?

And my council tax benefit has gone up because I earned a whopping 8 thousand pounds last year (st lucia with trimmings here we come. Not) And I need to clean the fish out and mow lawn and put washing out and cut toe-nails,hoover peas up in sitting room, pick up cat and dog poos, get my shit together and generally be more grown up. Except I am old already. sorry.will go away in a minute

{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}} and a big bar of chocolate, always works for me

(((((HUG)))))) and here is a huge slab of traybake [=]

thanks. blubbing now. pathetic

are you lone p ua?
cos I am and I'm feeling that way too, post hols, the long evenings return

oooh thats allot of poo you gotta clean up, no wonder you are fed up!

Dont do it....go and run a gorgeous bath....soak

open bar of choc....eat

do jobs tomorow....

yes ninah. lone p. how you doing? I wish I was a bit stronger. am doing my best. bit of a fuck up now and again but surviving

{{hugs ua}} It can be lonley in the evnings after cd have gone to bed. You have us lot to come to when you feel down

Dc not Cd!

I second sunburntats suggestion - hot bubble bath and a bar of chocolate. And a large glass of wine.

So sorry to hear that things are tough right now. Try not to be so hard on yourself

Have some more hugs. x

listen to your autie tat....bath, choc then bed, lovely sleepy sleep.

Same as you really! mostly strong sometimes a bit shit will it never end
money worries, all that
and the bloody lonliness
but hey it's not always this way and won't be
you know that

Been posting fun stuff on another thread, then it hits you like a bus. Feel shit, the fun goes, realise I have so much to do, H is banging whores, I have 18 years ahead minimum of trying to make ds into a kind, loving man..divorce is happening in a vacuum so will have to pay for it all myself...have no money..have no family...

H's family think I am a mad abusive paramour and haven't spoken to me in the fourteen months since he left. Horrid Mothers-in-law? My 'mother-in-law' is a biscuit-taker.

Why don't they call in SS, given their concerns... surely, if I am an unfit mother, they have a duty of care towards an endangered child?

H accused me of being a mad raging drunk..why isn't he fighting for custody then, concerned about the welfare of his son, instead of banging whores in thailand and trying to get into the pants of his young students?

God, I will get over this eventually. the wobbles get less, honestly.

he sounds like a tit of the first water. and you sound lovely. hopefully he'll pick up some as yet undiscovered and deeply unpleasant sti from whores.
try not to worry my love, it'll all come right in the end