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to hate my neighbours

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drlove8 · 07/08/2009 23:31

..... because they have destroyed my daughters "garden". DD4 has special needs ... we cant use most of our garden because the neighbours use it as the local tip, and as a toilet for their two dogs.its not safe.
there is a small strip of garden at the front of the house that is usually kept really tidy .... its mine and too far from the neighbours door for them too dump their rubbish.
DD4 has a thing for flowers.... she has few words and flowers is one she will say without prompt and with understanding.
so we decided that we would grow dd4 some flowers.
Together , dd4 and i planted some flower seeds in a corner, and i put some edging down to make it seperate from the grass. Then we waited for the flowers to grow.
they started to come up and blossom.... every day DD4 would go to her wee "garden" and say flowers, she'd mabey pick one and be grining for the rest of the day.
this doesnt sound much, but is a big big thing for DD4 , she has learning difficulties/suspected autism and was so attached to her wee space.
Today , when we returned from the doctors, we found that the edging has been riped up for the second time and her flowers have been trampled on.... the rose bush that was planted has had all the branches kicked so there hanging off...... neighbours were sitting laughing when the saw dd4 scream when she saw what they did..... the daughter had a vile smirk when she saw us come up the garden path....How can anyone do this to a disabled child?

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drlove8 · 09/08/2009 00:10

scottishmummyofone - -omg your poor gran, what kind of idiot would do such a thing?.... hope she's not traumatised.
Lou - thanks for the link.... i had no idea about housing allowance.its looking like a private rent might just be possible- we would have to pay a bit more rent than we do know i think, but it would be do-able! just showed dh and he's excited... (thats always a good sign)
tannee - council is dragging their heels with this.... if they evict my neighbours - they would just have to rehome them somewhere else.
saintmabey - yes i do think they are picking on dd4 because of her disability. Its a weakness that they have honed in on....i liken it to wild animals who pick off the weakest in a herd.- seroius lack of morals imho.
thanks to everyone who has given their time to reply to me. .... first thing monday im gona start looking around the estate agents /letting offices.

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