Dp and i are going to get married in a few months.
We moved house last year(because of his job)to a 2 bed cottage from a 4 bed bungalow with ample room. So we have lots of big furniture, 2 dogs and 3 kids squeezed in to our (much loved) little cottage. Its hard to keep it tidy as the kids (all under 5) make dens and paint, play etc all day.
I also have terrible episodes of backache, having one currently so unable to make too much effort with the tidying but still keeping reasonably on top of things considering. personally i feel as long as kids happy and looked after the mess not too much of a worry.
Anyway wedding dress arrived, my mum desperate to see it and have me mail pic to her. My friend here at time so qiuckly got into dress, her baby and mine climbing all over train crying to be picked up, older kids running in from garden with mucky feet hands etc, needless to say it was a quick snap.
My mum emails me back ' take a pic standing on a chair with none of that mess behind you, i didn't show that to any of the girls in the office because the place was such a state behind you'
I had joked to my friend that she'd say 'you might have tidied up first' but that was far worse. I'm so pissed off.
However later that night, and because i wasn't sure about dress i took another pic with hair and make up done etc i mailed her that too feeling it looked much better.
She rings me when she gets it and says 'i think dress is lovely, I showed it to some of the girls, Sarah pointed out you can see the ironing board in the background'
FFS!!!
WTF????
I was less patient at this point as back killing me so i told her 'tell Sarah to get a feckin life'
I'm so annoyed and pissed off and flabbergasted. I didn't ask for comments on my house, the pic was because my mum wanted to see how the dress looked not for her work mates to criticise (sp?) my home.
AIBU or is my sore back making me hypersensitive??