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To be narked at a barber for refusing to trim dd hair

32 replies

Macdog · 18/06/2009 19:57

I went into an empty barber's shop to ask if he could trim dd (3) hair.

I was told 'we don't do ladies'

Bit peeved by his attitude TBH

AIBU??

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nametaken · 18/06/2009 20:00

yes, you are

annoyedmum · 18/06/2009 20:01

yes of course YABU as its his choice you can't demand

rubyslippers · 18/06/2009 20:03

YABU

GeckoLovingHornedThing · 18/06/2009 20:03

yabu

nametaken · 18/06/2009 20:04

Yesterday my hairdresser refused to give me a colonic irrigation - should I be annoyed?

Bleatblurt · 18/06/2009 20:06

I'd be narked too. Not enough to post in AIBU with this lot though.

It wouldn't have taken long and the place was empty. I'd have though most barbers wouldn't have minded in that situation.

TheProvincialLady · 18/06/2009 20:06

No nametaken, you should be flipping grateful!

Macdog · 18/06/2009 20:07

She's not a lady though, she's 3.

I don't see the difference between a toddler boy's and toddler girl's hair

That is what's confusing me

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notsoteenagemum · 18/06/2009 20:08

Don't know if it's true but the barber I take ds to says he's only insured to cut mens/boys hair.

Macdog · 18/06/2009 20:09

Well that makes a sort of sense.

Wish he's told me that instead of being 'snippy'

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TheProvincialLady · 18/06/2009 20:10

Oh boom boom Macdog! Admit it, you only made up started this thread just so you could make that cheap joke

Goober · 18/06/2009 20:11

Men's hair is easier to cut than women's. He therefor must be underqualified and not able to do anything unpredictable.

nametaken · 18/06/2009 20:11

LOL

FabBakerGirlIsBack · 18/06/2009 20:12

I took my youngest in to a barbers to get his hair cut and mentioned that dd wanted her fringe doing so he cut it. They were sooooo lovely with the kids and didn't charge for dd.

MaryBS · 18/06/2009 20:12

I am horrified at all the cutting comments on here!

You should have told the barber she was a boy, who liked wearing pink dresses.

Macdog · 18/06/2009 20:13

He's a git anyway!

She's booked in to PROPER multitasking hairdresser tomorrow for a new 'do

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SoupDragon · 18/06/2009 20:49

Is it legal to refuse to serve someone on the basis of their sex?

katiestar · 18/06/2009 21:27

No it isn't legal .I think I am right in saying there have been court cases pertaining to this and also to unisex salons who charge different prices for the same cut to a man and a woman

StripeyKnickersSpottySocks · 18/06/2009 21:35

What Goober said.

Goober · 18/06/2009 21:50
mayorquimby · 19/06/2009 11:50

but if it's not legal katiestar how come they have can have those "curves" women only gyms? i thought there were caveats in place so you could have certain gender specific businesses.

Fimbo · 19/06/2009 11:52

Am I the only one loling at "no we don't do ladies". She's only 3.

toddlerama · 19/06/2009 11:59

Why would he sit in an empty barbershop turning away paying customers? Perhaps it's not a real barbershop?

Macdog · 19/06/2009 12:00

I know Fimbo. my chin hit deck at that one
I could see the point if I wanted her to have an ultra girly/curly/up do, but all I wanted was a quick chop to get the ends tidied up a bit.

Could tell he 'doesn't do ladies', though - mair mince than the butcher's shop

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Macdog · 19/06/2009 12:01

hmm Toddlerama, maybe it's a front for a super secret spy network

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