to have a crush on a 17 year old!!!!!!!!

[ishouldbeinbedbynow]

oh bugger, have recently developed stupid crush on this 17 year old boy. Have known him a while but he has suddenly grown up!!!!! iykwim!!!!!

I know this is wrong wrong wrong, but it doesnt stop me feeling like a lovesick teenager again, even though my teenage years are a very long time ago!!!

He has no idea, though we did have a brief conversation about milfs recently!!! Dont think it meant anything!!

Dont think it helps that dh has no interest in sex at the moment, not making me feel very attractive, so steamy fantasies about teenage boys are taking over!!! OMG!!!

This is a bit odd, I don't think the OP is a predator, but it's a little odd. I'm 26, and wouldn't look twice at a 17 year old boy, even if DP wasn't around. I think the guy would be a bit embarrassed having that conversation if he knew of the OP's 'feelings' for him.

It is fine to have feelings and thoughts about this, even such a ludicrous age gap of 51 and 17 (male or female)

It's worst to suppress the feeling as suppressed feeling can lead to inappropriate behaviour because you haven't acknowledged it.

What you shouldn't do is act on your feelings in any way and maintain appropriate boundaries at all times.

Behaviour is controllable.

No one slipped over and their cock fell in someone.

It's why I hate the 'I couldn't help myself. I just fell madly in love ' - bollocks, your 51. You should be able to control your impulses by now

This thread is so old he would be in his 20s now

Haha I didn't even notice the date on the original post!

Perhaps the 'stud' who resurrected this thread is the 17 - now 22 - year old?!

I don't know if I think yabu.

I have a story for you though!

When I was 15 I had a boyfriend (also 15) and I absolutely worshipped the ground he walked on. One night he was lying in bed as his mum and her friend stumbled in after a night out and somehow the friend ended up in his room and, surprise surprise, they ended up shagging. He told me nothing at the time until he had a text off her telling him she had chlamydia (sp?) and then told me I should get myself checked out.

Which was nice.

Lol at the date of this thread! I wonder what happened...

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