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to find this noise embarrassing??

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footinmouth · 06/06/2009 20:34

Have name-changed..

To cut a long story short, I met someone, about 2 months ago. We have met up on several occasions, he's absolutely lovely and we get on so well etc etc

However, I met up with him last night and we went out for dinner etc. When we got back, one thing led to another, which was fine by me. The thing is, when we started, he started making these funny wheezing noises . As I was on top I thought it might have been me. We tried other positions but he was still making this wheezing noise, very loudly.

I'm just wondering whether this type of thing is normal, perhaps just him getting excited?? I have to be honest, it did put me off a bit, even though maybe it shouldn't have. He isn't asthmatic or anything so not sure why he was making this noise.

He really is lovely and I know it's a small thing compared to the other lovely things about him

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marmitebabe · 07/06/2009 16:12

lol at this thread !

Could you try and put up with it for a little while and see how it goes ? - its just that lovely ones don't come along that often..!

footinmouth · 07/06/2009 16:25

hehe Jux, that's just it though, surely some of his ex's have pointed this out to him or maybe they've been too polite.

You are so right marmitebabe, I would never finish with him over it as I feel that would be wrong but just the thought of being intimate with him and knowing that he will be making this noise again.

I was seriously thinking of getting some small earplugs (that perhaps are hard to see) and putting them in prior to the act. I guess I could keep them in afterwards as well - to stop his snoring keeping me awake

Thing is, outside the bedroom, he is great, so much fun, no mind games and you can tell he really does care for me

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wotulookinat · 07/06/2009 17:02

Ask him if he has an inhaler he needs to keep near to the bed

BalloonSlayer · 07/06/2009 18:53

It's probably just a noise he makes when he is concentrating.

Like kids sticking their tongue out when they are colouring-in.

(He doesn't stick his tongue out as well, does he?)

OrmIrian · 07/06/2009 18:56

"Just out of interest, why do you wheeze when we're shagging? Do you have a lung condition? If not please stop".

footinmouth · 07/06/2009 19:36

haha BalloonSlayer - nope, he doesn't stick his tongue out

Ormirian - I was hoping to be a bit more subtle than that!!

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knockedgymnast · 08/06/2009 21:19

So Foot. Are you looking forward to tomorrow night (think wheezing and snoring)

kentmumtj · 08/06/2009 21:57

omg i cnat stop smiling and laughing

if it were me i would die and could not go back fro seconds

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