turns out after talking to two mumsn from school that mum one has put down her husbands yearly income at £8000 less to get more money and another claims that her childminding friend looks after her dd an gets £100 a week for this (£50 of which she actually gives to her mum for watching said dd)
how many others over the country must be doing this and why dont they get caught?
i will be calling the helpline and reporting btw!