AIBU or just weird to avoid snogging my husband?

[mulranno]

TBH I really dont like it when my husband snogs me...its always a slobbery french kiss..and kind of turns me off...so I avoid it...we have a great sex life...just dont like the snogging...goes back to when we first met and he was a heavy smoker with bad teeth...Jesus how did I stay with him!!...all that has been resolved...doesnt smoke...expensive dental work...but I am still hung up...are we or is he just a crap kisser? Can we/he learn to do it better?...does it have to be frech?...feel like a sad teenager posting this

DH knows that if he hadn't been such a good kisser the first time we snogged he wouldn't have got a proper date! All I can say is thank god he's such a great kisser!

OhBling...now I would LUUURRVE that...send him round here!

shine - that may not always be true

i did have an ex who was a fantastic kisser,got me so horny and he was fantastic with his tongue up above and

down below

but

the sex was utter crap

i gave him another chance the next night and again fab kissing and licking but rubbish at actual shagging

i ran away early in the morning and never saw him again

meaning a good kisser may not be good in bed ( as i found out)

but a crap kisser MIGHT be able to shag his self out of the problem

Mulranno - you can't borrow him I'm afraid. He's mine. All mine.

mulranno so glad you have realised there is a world of lovely kisses out there for you to enjoy. You have let him get away with this terrible slobbery python technique for far too long!

Tell him to try the following:

1. Little breath of a butterfly kisses on your shoulder, neck, lips...
2. A delicate kiss on the inside of your wrist (especially nice in a taxi on your way out somewhere nice, all dressed up)
3. You open your mouth slightly, he gently kisses your bottom lip.

I could go on. And none of the above involve the python tongue!

YANBU - I hate tonguey kisses and find them a massive turn off. Kissing without tongues is much sexier in my opinion.

I wish to make it clear that DH is a good kisser, in ALL ways IYKWIM, and does have a repertoire of different types.

In my case it's simply that I don't like the tonguey sort,
except when already feeling "horny".

Just wanted to clarify

Oh,and I have also had a boyfriend who was a wonderful kisser, but all else was a big disappointment