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To be absolutely livid with DP's 'friends'?

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Supercherry · 02/05/2009 20:34

After a long day and a big food shop, we had just got back home after driving a few times round the block to get DS to sleep, I popped in the house leaving DP to get DS out the car when I hear a commotion- lots of yelling and peeping of horns- when I look outside in a panic, it's DPs 'friends' pulled up right next to DP deliberately papping the horn and shouting to wake my little boy up . They succeeded and he looked pretty bewildered too

They had gone by the time I got there and I saw that DP was actually smiling as if it was all a big joke. I was furious and asked why he hadn't had a go at them, told him he needed to grow some balls etc and he actually had a go back at me. I demanded his phone so could give them a piece of my mind but he wouldn't hand it over.

DP has gone back out now to get DS back to sleep. I am fuming.

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TheProvincialLady · 02/05/2009 20:36

They would never darken my door again. Seriously. DP would have to socialise with these bell ends elsewhere.

loobeylou · 02/05/2009 20:38

what arses!

DuffyFluckling · 02/05/2009 20:39

Ooh I'd be furious. I'd be furious with the idiot friends though, not with dp. Not his fault, and I fail to see how him having a go at them would have improved the situation.

LadyAga · 02/05/2009 20:39

wankers

TheProvincialLady · 02/05/2009 20:47

Oh I don't know DF - if my DP had made no effort to stop them but actually bloody smiled, I would have been just as cross with him.

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Supercherry · 02/05/2009 20:47

Duffy, it wouldn't have improved the immediate situation, I agree, but they need telling IMO. If it was one of my friends (although this would NEVER happen) I would be saying 'No, actually, that is not funny, that was a completley wankerish thing to do'.

I may be overreacting (sp?) which is why I posted here but I am so mad (pregnant and hormonal too). I cannot stand any of DP's friends as it is- this just confirms what I have thought all along. I wish he would get some nicer friends and I wish he would back me up sometimes instead of caring about what other people think all the time.

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ilovetochat · 02/05/2009 20:49

yanbu, they are arses and he should be more concerned for you and his dc than his friends.

OrmIrian · 02/05/2009 20:50

Very silly. How old are they and DP?

However for your own sanity I think you might need to chill a touch?

lou33 · 02/05/2009 20:53

are you sure they didnt realise he was asleep?

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Supercherry · 02/05/2009 20:55

OrmIrian, DP is 26, DS is 15mths. I probably do need to chill.

Actually am feeling a bit calmer now I've vented (and I've sent the main culprit a message on FB). Probably not the wisest thing to do.

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noshouting · 02/05/2009 20:55

Phone them all from DPs mobile tomorrow at 6 30am.... let the baby babble....just a thought

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Supercherry · 02/05/2009 20:57

They definitley did it on purpose, they were drunk, this particular friend drink drives every wknd, drugs too, he is a loser. If I knew his registration I would probably phone the police right now.

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Supercherry · 02/05/2009 20:58

Good idea Noshouting

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lou33 · 02/05/2009 21:02

oh in which case give it them with both guns blazing

OrmIrian · 02/05/2009 21:03

I think I was very lucky. By the time DH and I got round to having babies all his mates had done it already. So had a healthy respect for small children and sleep

Please ensure DP realise just how funny this wasn't!

lou33 · 02/05/2009 21:03

send them all a text saying "omg guess what?!"

when they reply asking what, send another saying " you are a nob"

works all the time, i get endless comedy value from it

RumourOfAHurricane · 02/05/2009 21:08

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lou33 · 02/05/2009 21:13

i've used it a few times for different situations, amazing how people cant resist replying lol

ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 03/05/2009 00:24

Unbelievable. Anyone who could do that would be seriously unwelcome in my house. And if DH didn;t say anything but smiled he might be pretty unwelcome too. Your DP is quite young tho - sounds like his 'mates' might be stupid immature twats.

ItsAllaBitNoisy · 03/05/2009 00:37

Ok, so a mate of your husbands meets him on the street, and does a typically laddish thing of causing a bit of a racket. And you are LIVID??

If I was your husband I would laugh at your suggestion of taking his phone. I would also read your FB message as someone who really needs to relax.

God, the unnecessary drama of it all.

SerendipitousHarlot · 03/05/2009 00:38

Hahahaha lou, I'm so going to use that

I'm going to go out on a limb here a little bit and YABU a teeny bit.

They were just having a laugh. They probably didn't even think about your dc tbh.

Sorry.

SerendipitousHarlot · 03/05/2009 00:39

Or.... what ItsAllaBitNoisy said

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Supercherry · 03/05/2009 08:06

Yes I was livid Itsallabitnoisy- can't see anything funny about it today either I'm afraid.

If it was an accident then that would be different but they deliberately woke up a sleeping baby- I just can't see the funny side. Really, you think it's funny too? Would you be laughing along also?

I think it's just plain stupid.

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PadDad · 03/05/2009 08:56

It is stupid. But it's also not the end of the world.

Morloth · 03/05/2009 09:11

A bit dumb maybe, but I am not sure it is worth being livid over, perhaps mildly annoyed - as you say DP took DS out again to get him back to sleep. No harm done.

I wouldn't have given you my phone either, it would be embarrassing to have your partner call your friends and have a go - kind of like your mum.

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