AllFallDown: "Those who think the state does nothing for them are safly misguided.
"
I would agree with your point in as much as I don't think the state does nothing for me.
We are a higher earning household.
And I thank god that we are because without dh's earnings, my children would be well and truly fucked.
dd1 has no school place, and no liklihood of getting a suitable one - special schools are closing by the dozen, and mainstream schooling is not suitable for her. we currently fund her special school place. she gets no speech therapy, although she sorely needs it, and no occupational therapy, although again she needs it. there are methods and programmes which work for her, but we cannot get funding for them without an almighty legal fight (and this is only to get her up to "basic" functioning, not after bells and whistles provision) we currently fund a private treatment programme for her too, which has seen her come on leaps and bounds.
the nhs is wilfully ignoring the medcal problems that both my daughters have. Largely due to not wanting to admit they have problems, as that would open up a real can of worms. so we fund their care from dh's earnings, via private medical care, and i am very grateful that we are able to do so.
we recently moved across the country, at no small expense, to find better schooling for dd1. we have succeeded, but as i said before, we currently fund that place (and even at part time the costs are sky high)
I do not begrudge the tax we pay. dh earns x amount. his tax is y amount. that's the way ti is. But to now pay more tax, when I know for certain that our chances of getting even basic rights for my girls are only goign to decrease does leave me wondering exactly what IS happening with all the money. we are certainly not going to seeany benefit from this.