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Original poster

teen girls don;t seem to change really do they...............................

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psychomum5 · 16/03/2009 21:23

not AIBU as such, more I think I was U to think that teens now would be different to us, and am shocked they are not.

my DD1 is complaining tonight about her apparently lesbian PE teachers.

I ask why she thinks they are lesbian.

She replied it was because they always walk in and check on them while they are changing for PE/back into uniform.

I remember complaining about the exact same thing when I was an ignorant teen too (altho we complained about them watching us in the shower!).

seems girls really don;t change.

shame really as I thought that teens would be more enlightened than we were back then, but , they are not.

do boys say the same things tho about their games teachers I wonder?????

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TrillianAstra · 16/03/2009 21:32

It's also because they have moustaches, and everyone knows that lesbians are butch-looking (unless they are in porn films)

SerendipitousHarlot · 16/03/2009 21:34

Hahahaha that is so true! I'd forgotten completely about thinking that!

lemonadesparkle · 16/03/2009 21:40

I became good friends with the woman who had been my PE teacher when her youngest and my eldest ended up in primary school together. I did stuggle not to call her Miss X though

It was an interesting evening the first night we went out and got drunk together. I admitted to her that I was suprised she had married and had children as very obviously she was meant to be a lesbian and she replied by saying clearly she wasn't but naming all her colleagues (my teachers) who were

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psychomum5 · 16/03/2009 21:40

lol trillian, so true

serendip, I too had forgotten how much we all used to complain (me and my mates) about our PE teachers until tonight.

took me RIGHT back.........

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psychomum5 · 16/03/2009 21:41

ooh lemonade, thankgoodness she took it in the right way

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tiredsville · 16/03/2009 21:43

Yep, our PE teacher was always eyeing us up too. She was very butch and demanded we were short skirts for hockey.

TrillianAstra · 16/03/2009 21:44

That's the sort of friends I want, difficult to offend and full of gossip!

'I used to think you were a lesbian'

'Well I'm not but did you know X, Y , and Z are?'

herbietea · 16/03/2009 21:47

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tiredsville · 16/03/2009 21:47

Out of interest, how many of you who went to catholic school had lesbian PE teachers? I always thought the two went hand in hand.

Poledra · 16/03/2009 21:49

I remember thinking this Psycho. A male friend of mine said their PE teachers did the same, and would insist on PE without shirts on at random intervals. This friend has since trained as a teacher (though not PE) and has found out that teachers are looking for signs of physical abuse while prowling round changing rooms - bruises that would not otherwise be seen are obvious.

TaxiDriver · 16/03/2009 21:49

lol
dd aged 11, has the lesbian pe teacher as well

TaxiDriver · 16/03/2009 21:50

i never had those thoughts though strangly about my pe teacher.
must have been too green,
although i am pretty sure they werent anyway, it turns out

TrillianAstra · 16/03/2009 21:50

We had a Maths teacher who insisted on being Ms, not Miss. She wasn't lesbian though, she had a long-term man. I guess she had some anti-marriage thing going on.

Coldtits · 16/03/2009 21:51

My pe teacher was a lesbian.

She really WAS! She got barred from the girl's changing rooms - it was common knowledge she had a female partner, and we didn't want her looking at our tits, in the same way we wouldn't have wanted a man in there, so we complained to the head.

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psychomum5 · 16/03/2009 21:52

ooh poledra, I never thought that that was the reason they do it.

I just figured it was normal teacher 'keeping an eye on them' stuff (IYGWIM).

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Helium · 16/03/2009 21:55

I think it's a child protection thing - to check they havent got bruises etc from abuse... but yes we were exactly the same at school too!!

LesbianMummy1 · 16/03/2009 21:56

TrillianAstra I don't have moustache neither does my partner

honeybehappy · 16/03/2009 21:56

Ours were lesbians too.

They used to make us pull back our towels so they could make sure we didnt have our bra on in the shower.

TrillianAstra · 16/03/2009 21:59

I did a LesbianMummy, which has been described earlier as an 'I don't believe you' emoticon. I was ing at how teenagers were so prejudiced and ignorant. No need to do the scary red smiley at me

ilovetochat · 16/03/2009 22:00

one of ours really was a lesbian and was open about her partner. a science teacher (male) had an affair with a pupil and when we went on a field trip an old teacher maybe 60 bought his girlfriend along, she looked 30ish with a tight short skirt on and high heels on a farm and they were off to bed early every night.

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psychomum5 · 16/03/2009 22:00

oooh, someone got shirty.......

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LesbianMummy1 · 16/03/2009 22:01

ok point taken but there were no smileys anywhere i hate those bleedin stereotypes

honeybehappy · 16/03/2009 22:02

ilovetochat it sounds like we went to the same school.

LesbianMummy1 · 16/03/2009 22:03

I am allowed to be shirty you are talking about shirts

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psychomum5 · 16/03/2009 22:09

is it a low cut shirt, school-girl style???

actually, TBH, I got trillians joking tone in her post. are people really that steriotypical

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