I have just managed to get through this thread because I have found it fascinating. There seem to be two sides here, but the thing is they aren't even in conflict, really. Yes, there are some absolutely awful receptionists out there (not going to go into the general NHS problems) but there are also some really good ones.
I've been fortunate, in that I've had a wonderful surgery which was just a few minutes walk away. If I rang up for an appointment, yes, I would be asked what the problem was. But at this surgery the GPs had areas in which the specialised in, so telling them I had a respitory problem enabled them to check whether the appropriate GP had vacancies. If it was urgent, they would just get me in to see anyone. I have seen the nurse as well, who would then get any required prescription checked and signed by a GP while I waited in reception after the appointment.
They were also very willing to ring if there were any late cancellations or late comers as I was so close to them - a win for each of us, they got to free up a later slot and I got in to see the GP earlier.
On a previous move I had a choice of two GP surgeries, I personally went in and visited both of them, to get a feel for them and see what sort of receptionists there were. I also asked them what sort of appointment system they ran. In the end, it was the appointment system that decided it for me. The one that had the 'ring at 9.00 am for an appointment that day but can't make one for later in the week' was just not an option for me, so I chose the other one. However I made a point of telling the other surgery that although they had lovely facilities and I thought the staff sounded nice, there was just no way I would put up with the awful appointment system they had - they need to know that patients are not willing to put up with that sort of rubbish.
With this last move, I had a choice between several surgeries, one offered Saturday appointments for those who worked and could not make it during the week - I chose that one.
I think the main problem for those who have awful receptionists at their GP surgeries, is that this is a never ending problem. You can choose not to go to a small shop if you get poor customer service, you can just take your business and money elsewhere, but you can't just up and leave a GP surgery easily when you are ill.
Poor service from reception staff is just not on - a large proportion of people seeing the GP are at their most vulnerable, a hormonal pregnant woman, a woman with PND, someone with depression who has just barely plucked up the courage to make an appointment are just some examples. It is awful, and they should never be rude.
But how many of the people here who have had poor service from the receptionists at your GP had the gumption to actually go and look for an alternative surgery? (Obviously bearing in mind that some people have no choice of surgeries in rural areas!)
Yes, complaints need to be made, but at the same time LOTS of people have a choice, they can choose to leave that surgery and go to another one - and writing to the practice manager to tell them WHY they have left, but for some reason people don't.