My friend has a dilema, one of her bf has said she will turn up at her wedding, even though this is a strictly family affair, and she has been invited to the evening do. As well as all the other bfs. She would not be able to attend the service as the function room is very small, and funds limited for the reception afterwards. She wants to be there for the photos, despite my friend making it very clear that this is unacceptable, my friends fiance is very angy about this and it could cause problems on the day should she show up, any advise on how to tackle her without hurting her feelings too much?