to think that it's icky that my bf's fiancé is thinking of using the same best man as for his first marriage?

[OrangeKnickers]

I think it's ewwwwwwww! But bf doesn't mind. Obviously it's nothing to do with me but I don't want them to be laughed at by others (as I would snigger if I heard this about someone else).

AIBU?

Aww, Orangeknickers, sorry - in retrospect I was a bit harsh. Am I forgiven?

I can't see the problem - I would presume he is still the best friend.

surely you choose your closest most trusted friend to be best man. A good friendship would outlast a previous bad marriage.

Same ring, suit or venue might be a bit icky, but same best man seems fine to me

My dp is using same best man AND we are getting married in same reg Office as I did last time.

Same reg office is fine I would think, there's probably only one in each town anyway, I meant same reception venue

We actually debated next town reg office but want everything in walking distance so have give up and gone with it!!!