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To get dressed and go home when my BF decides to phone his ex during sex?

72 replies

LilBit · 06/01/2009 10:01

Yes he actually picked up the phone and called his ex whilst he was on top of me!

I shoved him off got dressed and left.

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LilBit · 06/01/2009 10:26

Thanks so much you lot!

Going now so you can carry on having a good laugh at my expense.

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Idrankthechristmasspirits · 06/01/2009 10:28

Am having a teabreak in the office, this is great carcrash mumsnetting!

Am loving the passive agressive smileys from Claw

claw3 · 06/01/2009 10:36

Passive agressive, i thought i was looking on the bright side ha ha!

Idrankthechristmasspirits · 06/01/2009 10:37
FairLadyRantALot · 06/01/2009 10:38

Funny enough you mentioning pirate noisess thread....as I just read it yesterday and thought straightaway about that thread, when reading the title of this one
well, if it's for real...I don't think yabu at all, and I would think that he is your ex now, too....

wotulookinat · 06/01/2009 10:40

God, I would never admit to this happening. I hope you never sleep with hiim again.

FairLadyRantALot · 06/01/2009 10:40

oh, lol at pagwatch logic of him being a "good egg"

lol at claw

Stretch · 06/01/2009 10:40

Oooh pirate noises!!! Had forgotton about that!! Was so funny!!

To OP: If this is real what the hell kind of reaction was he expecting???

claw3 · 06/01/2009 10:46

Whats this about pirate noises, stop it, will ya, im now in stitches!

I now have images of Johnny Depp on the phone during sex

wotulookinat · 06/01/2009 10:46

I'd make pirate noises for Johnny Depp.

claw3 · 06/01/2009 10:48

LOL i almost typed Johnny DEEP, i dont know what i was thinking!

Remotew · 06/01/2009 10:55

LilBit, what time of the day was it? If it was at the time of a scheduled call to his DC then perhaps that's not as bad as the call I received which was for an entirely different reason.

2k9kids · 06/01/2009 10:59

Were you actually in the middle of sex???
Not finished and lounging round in bed for a bit? Perhaps if you'd finished and his mind had wandered on to other matters?
What did he say when you asked him what on earth he was thinking???

FairLadyRantALot · 06/01/2009 11:07

claw, it's a thread in mn classic...it is utterly hilarious

Libralovesbiscuits1975 · 06/01/2009 11:08

Was he using a hands free kit?

claw3 · 06/01/2009 11:12

Fairlady - Ive been in stitches, even more so when people are asking questions like 'what time of day was it'. Like its ok if it was off peak LOL

Remotew · 06/01/2009 11:17

I asked what time of day because I'd compared it to a phone call I received from an ex in the early hours. Then felt a bit crass. . It could be for real and everyone was saying she was a crap shag

themoon66 · 06/01/2009 11:22

So how did the conversation go then?

claw3 · 06/01/2009 11:24

Abouteve - Sorry i know you didnt mean it was ok if was off peak, its my warped mind.

puts serious head on of course its totally out of order if he did do that, but would you really feel the need to ask if you are being unreasonable not to continue having sex with him.

MascaraOHara · 06/01/2009 11:27

Is this you as well

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/678120-Fiance-took-part-in-cult-orgies

or is 2009 the year of the long-distance relationship breakdown(?)

Remotew · 06/01/2009 11:28

He was wishing me a happy new year! lol. Then I chatted to his new girlfriend and it kept going quiet so I figured out what they were doing .

I found it mildly amusing really, got over him a long time ago but chat now and again.

Come to think of it I can remember breaking off in the middle to take a phone call once, which isn't too bad but the guy was offended.

ScottishMummy · 06/01/2009 11:31

your linkcult orgies and fiance

sunshineakindat · 06/01/2009 11:45

i dont think you really need advice about this one do you?
disrespectful, weird, rude.

  1. why was he thinking about his ex
  2. why was he thinking about his daughter
come on girl. just because you are meant to be getting married doesnt mean you should. thank god you arent married already. your not exactly likely to bump into him are you? thank god.
vess · 07/01/2009 04:38

A man's attempt to multitask

LilBit · 07/01/2009 08:06

As this has reared its ugly head again, I feel I have a right to reply to those that suggest I am a boring shag, those remarks were extremely hurtful and unhelpful.

I am very much the lady in public and a whore in bed, I look after my body and know how to use it. I am a 34F and size 10, I am very confident in bed and have no hang-ups, trust me a man should never be bored in bed with me. I love sex and I am a very passionate person, I know how drive a man wild with excitement.

This is why it didn?t cross my mind for one second that it might be because I am boring in bed!

After your comments I asked him if it was because I was a boring shag and he told me ?God no! You are awesome; I have never been with a woman who is so passionate!?

He still couldn?t explain properly why he needed to make the phone call except to say he had been thinking it was time for his call to his daughter before we started getting intimate but got carried away and then decided (in his tiny male brain) that before we got too engrossed in what we were doing (when we have sex it can last for at least an hour) ?Ok quick call to dd and get back to some serious passion?.

Vess, yes, it probably was a poor attempt at a man multi-tasking! He apologised and admitted it was ?thoughtless?... But a simple apology doesn?t quite cut it does it?

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