to be sooooooo mad at this women for this???????????????

[theboob]

just had a phone call from a woman who's DP is in my class at college

we sit next to each other most lessons because we were in the same classes last year too,it was his birthday and everyone in the class got him a card so i did to,i signed it lots of love as i do in all cards no XXXXX or anything like that

she has just acused me of having an affair with him and fancying him
we have been shopping together and our babies have played together i just feel so that she would think this as i thought we were friends,and not to mention i'm married with 3 DC
so what do i do now,never speak to him again so she is happy,she also attends this college but is a year behind me ,cant belive im getting so much hassle for nothing

sorry rant over

I would talk to her.

Her reply sounds like she's been given reason on her part to suspect he's up to something and has taken your intentions the wrong way.

The OP has to work with him. Being nasty to the woman isn't going to get her anywhere and without trying to resolve the issue may make things awkward in the future.

thankyou fuzzy
i will still say hello to her but no more shopping trips or coffee,it's my birthday on sunday and i invited her out with us a week ago,just her not her DP ,i dont know if she will show ,but i only have until may to put up with her watching me like a hawk for no reason,but maybe once i get a baby bump she might calm down a little

I know it's hard to be civilised to her and not be angry but I would keep an open mind and talk to her before your birthday - if she does show up don't want it to ruin it.

i will be civilized to her,its not in my nature to be anything else,think i'll let her make the first move on shopping etc

i'll send her a message on facebook about my birthday ,but dont think she will show after this