OK this is YEARS ago, I know,
Thanks to the wonders of facebook I've just caught up with one of my best mates from school, having not spoken to him for 15 years..
I knew he came out after school but had no idea he was at the time (was always trying to set him up with friends of mine - doh)
We've just had a long catch up conversation during which he told me he and my ex used to regularly shag in their early teens (all boys prep/boarding school) finished long before me (I joined in the 6th form) but he never bloody told me..
He always hated him too, now I understand why..
Feel like a complete fecking idiot! Euukk