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to think people shouldn't use words if they dont understand the meaning

136 replies

elmoandella · 03/12/2008 17:28

i am fed up of the term hun being used on this site is an example. it is being used to offend people who buy and sell on prams in another thread.

where i come from this term originates (and still stands for) an offensive term a catholic uses to say someone is a protestant.

therefore it is extremely offensive to call me a "pram hun"

why use a word if you dont knows its meaning.

OP posts:
OldLadyKnowsNothing · 03/12/2008 18:06

Racist?

Kathyis6incheshigh · 03/12/2008 18:08

"is it too much to ask when your on a thread and someone states they find a term offensive that they stop using that thread for the remainder of that thread at least?"

It is if doing so would render it impossible for discussion to continue. It would be more sensible for you to simply leave the thread. Is that too much to ask?

Or if we all just said 'the H word' would that do?

ToysAreLikeDogs · 03/12/2008 18:08

yes

Tidey · 03/12/2008 18:08

I'm not sure what you're offended by now. Is it this apparently abusive religious meaning of hun (which personally I've never come across before) or people calling you a 'pram hun'?

OldLadyKnowsNothing · 03/12/2008 18:09

If you're "not religious at all", in what way are you offended at being addressed in terms to which only a bluenose would object? Is this yet another word you don't understand?

Tn0g · 03/12/2008 18:12

I'm offended that 2shoes threw poo at me.

I'm choosing to turn the other [butt] cheek though.

elmoandella · 03/12/2008 18:12

if someone asks an offensive word not to be used on a particular thread (not this one, just for example another you were on)

would you continue to use it on the other thread i mean.

by all means, continue to use it on this thread for the sake of the arguement?

but what i'm asking is if you were asked to stop. would you continue using it?

OP posts:
2AdventSevenfoldShoes · 03/12/2008 18:13

I ma offended tha topg calle me 2poos!

ToysAreLikeDogs · 03/12/2008 18:14

YAalsoBU by starting a thread about a thread I might add

[frown]

2AdventSevenfoldShoes · 03/12/2008 18:14

elmoandella can you link to the thread please as then I can see what context the word is being used in.

TrinityRhino · 03/12/2008 18:15

OMG

it is not offensive in the context it is being used
GET A GRIP

Tn0g · 03/12/2008 18:16

Heehee

sorry

but...

heehee

hullygully · 03/12/2008 18:16

you are throwing your toys out of your pram, hun

devoutsceptic · 03/12/2008 18:18

Like, duh, people DO know the meaning. It means 'honey' as in the kind of sickly idiots who call each other honey on the internet. Still, if it makes you happy to take offence, and that amuses other people, seems a win-win to me.

Tidey · 03/12/2008 18:19

People have tried to explain this several times now. The term 'pram hun' is just a convenient phrase made up from the way that a lot of the women who are obsessed with prams also happen to call each other 'hun' a lot. It has no religious or racist connnotation.

smallorange · 03/12/2008 18:20

This is hilarious. My husband is a 'hun'( a Glasgow Rangers supporter, although not at all religious) and he will pish himself reading this.We take sectarianism seriously and find it both offensive and depressing. But this is ridiculous!

TrinityRhino · 03/12/2008 18:22

maybe we are wrong?

I mean you go on a thread ALL about prams
NOT A SINGLE mention of religion

noone arguing or starting a fight

but obviously if you see the words 'pram hun'

they are actually calling someone a 'parambulator protestant'

hmm of course

ChristmasCakeYerbouti · 03/12/2008 18:25

NE1 wanna buggapoo in fanjolene puce, with matchin foot muff?

I'd like to swop it 4 a quimmy zapp

Fanx hun

CharCharGaboriaInExcelsisDeo · 03/12/2008 18:26

context context context

That's all I have to say, really. Words can mean different things in different context. In this case, it means 'honey.' I think you need to breeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaathe.

CharCharGaboriaInExcelsisDeo · 03/12/2008 18:27

lol at perambulator protestant

Lockets · 03/12/2008 18:31

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TheProvincialLady · 03/12/2008 18:31

Especially if you are not even a member of said religion.

Aimsmum · 03/12/2008 19:02

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2AdventSevenfoldShoes · 03/12/2008 19:11

heres the thread babes

CuddlyUnderTheMistletoe · 03/12/2008 19:19

Like many, I was persuaded by the title but disappointed by the op.

Did someone actually call you 'hun' or were they amicably chatting amongst themselves throwing in the odd 'hun' and you just find it all a bit offensive?

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