i think he is- but just need someone elses opion.
Dh is forces and he was going to be away this week and weekend, plans changed and he is how here. I had planned to go home ( just over and hour away) vist family and have my hair done. I was going to take my dog with me and dh wasnt go to be here. Seeing as he is now here, i said great, you can look after the dog, - who is not in the best of health having recently been diagnosed with hip displacia and the weekend would have really been a bit much for him. Dh said fine, then yesterday when i was booking the food shopping to be delivered onthe sat am, he said he wouldnt be here. I asked him why as he would need to be here to look after the dog, and he informed me he had plans to go out with friends in the next town and would be staying overnight to save taxi fares. I said what about the dog - to which he told me he would be ok, he would leave a light on and he wasnt going out till 10pm. So i said that if he wasnt going out till then when would he get back - he said he didnt know but would get a mate ( who i dont know) to pop in and let the dog out for a wee at lunchtime. I went mental at him, i think he is being totally selfish and a idiot. He then said that he would be in the pub at 10, so would in fact be leaving the house at about 8, but wouldnt admitt to the fact that he was trying to make me misunderstand. He said i was being selfish and trying to control him and that if the dog was in a kennel noone would be there at night ( dont know if this is true or not).
I am fuming at him, and not speaking to him. I never go out, i cannot think of more that 7 or so occassions since i had dd ( who is almost 3) that i have been out in a evening, - and im only going to my mothers! AIBU?