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AIBU?

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to have kept an item I inadvertently 'stole' today?

254 replies

ilikeyoursleeves · 09/11/2008 23:04

I was doing supermarket sweep at Tesco's today, huge amount of food in trolley so I hung a maxi pack of Huggies nappies off the hook under the kids seat at the front of the trolley. I paid for all my shopping, then realised when I got to my car that I had walked out with the Huggies still hanging on the hook.

...and then drove off.

AIBU to have kept them?

OP posts:
skramble · 09/11/2008 23:05

If it was a genuine mistkae I wouldn't stress about it, something we have all done at some point. It used to be the huge 18 rools of loo roll hanging on the trolley, usually I would realise at some point going through the till but did miss it once.

differentID · 09/11/2008 23:06

yes. You had ample opportunity to return to the store to make payment, you failed to do this therefore you didn't inadvertantly "steal" anything. You did it in full knowledge you were stealing.

Aitch · 09/11/2008 23:06

oh lordy lord... you don't know what you've done here, do you?

MinkyBorage · 09/11/2008 23:06

well yabu if you think it isn't stealing. I don't have a moral objection to stealing from tesco for the record. Wouldn't do it myself mind, but wouldn't buy anything from them either

SlartyBartFast · 09/11/2008 23:06

well of course you are unreasonable - but many of us would do the same.

Lockets · 09/11/2008 23:07

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cornsilk · 09/11/2008 23:07

yabu - should have got pampers

ilikeyoursleeves · 09/11/2008 23:07

Aitch what have I done? Am I going to burn in hell?

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chefswife · 09/11/2008 23:11

to be honest... i would have driven away as well... based on the distance i'd already gone with them, however, i would take the first opportunity to right my karma.

elsiepiddock · 09/11/2008 23:11

Don't you feel soooo bad now?

Your big mistake was to post it on here, because many people are going to tell you off and make you feel bad.

chefswife · 09/11/2008 23:12

you won't burn in hell but karma will knick you in the butt.

edam · 09/11/2008 23:12

YABU but hey, Tescos aren't exactly the most morally sound company. They have a very complex system for avoiding as much tax and possible and sent in the big guns to try to stop the Guardian from reporting it.

They may have managed to make it legal by employing lots of clever-clever tax lawyers but essentially they owe you, me and every other taxpayer a deal of money.

SneakerPimp · 09/11/2008 23:12

'then realised when I got to my car'

back to customer services, sharpish, no excuse

you know once,

and this is a great example of what goes around,

i/we went for a thai meal,

the bill came and they had massivly undercharged us,

we told them,

they did that beautiful thing they do at great thai resturants and they told us we didnt have to pay the difference for being so honest,

we went back,

lots,

and everytime we did, they gave us a free drink

it will come back to bite you on the arse at some point in life,

if not at the supermarket checkout,

if not in the supermarket carpark,

but it will...

SaintGeorge · 09/11/2008 23:13

PMSL

Anyone else got a Pampers ad on this thread?

Even the ad agency are trying make you feel horribly guilty

milge · 09/11/2008 23:13

< waits for the grape scenario>

edam · 09/11/2008 23:13

Stick the price of the nappies in the next charity collection box you see. That way you'll merely have liberated a few pennies of Tesco's ill-gotten gains.

MinkyBorage · 09/11/2008 23:16

good example of what goes around from me too..........
I ordered a load of clothes from Topshop online, the bag arrived with about £120 worth of M&S clothes in the bag as well as my order. Took the clothes back to M&S, told them what had happened. They though I was mad. Did I get anything back from them? Fuck all! Not a sausage!

notnowbernard · 09/11/2008 23:16

I've done this with a box of bottled lager (one of those 20x ones)... left it in the trolley and forgot to get it swiped with the scanner as I usually do (so I don't have to bother lifting it out onto the conveyor thing)

Realised when I checked my receipt back at home and wondered why it was so cheap

No, I didn't take it back

Am sure Tesco will cope

But fully acknowledge it was theft. Will prepare for Judgement Day

SneakerPimp · 09/11/2008 23:19

for all that have said,

ok,

tescos will cope,

i have done this,

judgement day,

blah blah,

honest question?

if you found something that didnt belong to you would you return it if you knew who the owner was?

Wezzle · 09/11/2008 23:19

lol Minky...don't blame you for taking them back

M&S clothes are shoite!!

In answer to the OP, I wouldn't lose too much sleep over it, tis only Tesco after all

notnowbernard · 09/11/2008 23:20

yes

SneakerPimp · 09/11/2008 23:21

In answer to the OP, I wouldn't lose too much sleep over it, tis only Tesco after all

regardless if it is theft?

and she knew this before she left tesco!

it is only tesco

skramble · 09/11/2008 23:21

Return something to a person yes return something to a mego store maybe not.

I would slap yourself and promise to do a proper good turn asap to someone who really needs it.

ilikeyoursleeves · 09/11/2008 23:21

I would feel bad if it was the Co-op round the corner or a small shop but somehow the fact that it's Tescos made it seem less wrong in my mind as they seem to rule the world. Yes I know it's technically stealing but I didn't mean to do it and they aren't going to miss it.

I will await to be struck by lightning. Yikes.

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Wezzle · 09/11/2008 23:24

Yes I know it's tecnically theft but it was a one off and so no, I wouldn't lose any sleep over it