He's 6 months now so I should have chilled out a little. He had a few problems when he was born so we were very over protective. He's fine now and so I let people mind him or take him for walks if they ask, or if I'm working I let close family mind him.
My mum's had him over night one night when me and DP went to a posh hotel, and a couple of times when we've both had sickness bugs and not wanted the baby to catch it. Mum adores DS and DS adores me.
MIL doesn't seem to like me since I had the baby as I haven't involved her to any great extent because I think if she's so bothered, why do I have to make all the effort? Plus she's refused to buy nappies before when we lost our cash card and couldn't get money out.
Anyway, she wants DS overnight. Anything we tell her to do she does the opposite on purpose and she smokes which really bothers me as DS's cousin has a very bad chest and has always been around her smoking.
Anyway. She thinks I'm unreasonable as she wanted to be sort of centre of DS's life and she's not. I am. She also thinks it's horrible that my mum's more involved but it's because my mum makes an effort and comes to see him or asks to have him and alsorts.
But then MIL is his nana too and I should let DS stay for DP's sake I suppose. But I know she'll do things to mind me up, and she'll put him in bed with her when he sleeps through in is cot for me. I never gave in and put him in bed with us, I always just settled him and put him back in his cot (I know some babies are more difficult than this, and I was lucky). She won't follow my routine's either.
I know I'm being a little fussy... should I let him stay or not?
I'm ready to get a bashing on here for being mean to MIL but I thought I should ask anyway.