Ok well here's an update.
The FO have started a complaint against Pru on my behalf. They are also claiming for phone calls, as I have had to do all the ringing around, because Pru have never once contacted me. Anyway, yesterday I spoke to them again and said I was starting complaint proceedings against them with the FO. She started going on again about how the faxed copies couldn't be accpeted. I said "so why ahs it atekn you 10 days to decide this, and why didn't you call me, or Lloyds to tell them this". She put me on hold and came back and this is what she said, no joke
"well Mrs X, we did accpet faxed copies, up until today whenh teh rules changed and we don't accpet them any more, that's why we cannot accept these forms".
ARRGGHHHH
"So if you accepted faxed copies up until today, why did you not accept these ones which arrived 10 days ago".
No answer. They really haven't got a bloody clue, they are all nicey becasue thats how their Indian bosses tell them to be, but in reality they don't know what they are on about. They told me that they ahve resent all teh forms for us to sign again!
I also called Lloyds yesterday and they said that they ahd definately posted the letters of as well as faxing them, and gave me the name of the person they spoke to, the date and time. Pru are still saying that they haven't recieved them.
Then lloyds called me up and said "Mrs X, we don't usually do this, but we have written a letter of dislcamier to prudential telling them we no interest in your Endowment and to give you the money. What you are having to put up with is unacceptable, and since they obvously won't accpet our forms and letter this is perhaps the easiest way, if they issue the cheque to yourselves".
However, I'm not holding my breath as Pru will put another obstacle in the way. No doubt they will want the forms re sent.
I actually think that they don't ahve the money, I'm beginning to belive that they don't ahve it becasue they are in financail trouble