to cut a long story short we split up nearly 10 years ago. i was very young and naive and left with nothing and i mean nothing.
at the time my solicitor kept telling me to go to court to claim half as we had a fair amount of assets etc etc, but i just did.nt feel 'brave' enough to do it and so said no. i signed house etc over blah blah.
exh said afterwards that he had done wrong by me and he realised he had but still it did not make him give anything to me.
now i left this weasel because he told me [when drunk] that he had had a bj off my sister and so you can imagine what my feelings are to the pair of them.
anyway i am now very happily married with an adorable lo
however today my mom rings me and says i have had a letter from solicitors asking your where abouts and for you to provide proof of adress and who you are in relation you apolicy you took out jointly with exh.
so i rang exh mom[ i have a knack for remebering numbers] and asked her if she knew what it was about and she said he is here speak to him.
anyway the upshot of it is in his words that i have to sign this paper to give permission for him to have this money cos apparently it was never settled at the time. i said what happens if i don't and he says he won't get the money.
i feel really really p**d off that yet agin i am gonna give i cos it's the right thing to do but it narks me that when i said to him gosh you really did well out of our marriage did'nt yuo he said well it's not my fault and is trying to fool me into thinking no claim.[probably i don't]
sorry i just really having a bad day because i ahve really struggled over the years sometimes not eating when he has gone on fabulously with what was our money.