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AIBU?

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To let my children run around in a wedding, a funeral, in a library, in a restaurant, during their A'level exams...

40 replies

Pennies · 21/10/2008 18:46

I mean honestly, they're just kids FGS. They NEED to let off steam somehow. I simply don't see why anyone would take offence or consider it dangerous, disrespectful, or at all inappropriate.

Also it is IMPOSSIBLE to get my LOs do to anything they don't want to, so what choice have I got?

AIBU. I really, really think not. I'm sure you'll agree.

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DecayingDisaster · 21/10/2008 18:47

no YANBU. children need to be children and the rest of the world need to be more understanding.

FlameThrowersKillZombies · 21/10/2008 18:47
Grin
cocoleBOO · 21/10/2008 18:52

YABU they need to express themselves and to engage in just being.

AbbeyA · 21/10/2008 19:15

TROLL!!!

snigger · 21/10/2008 19:31

I just think it's wonderful you're giving them such a cross-section of life experiences. If you can get them to run around in Poundstretcher and the Tate Modern it would be much more balanced, and better for their long term development.

loobeylou · 21/10/2008 19:39

PMSL !!

booge · 21/10/2008 19:41

Troll or not. Children need to be socialised and that means learning to behave appropriately at certain times. It is your job to teach them how and when. Running around in a restaurant is just plain dangerous.

AnarchyAunt · 21/10/2008 19:41

You could even go the whole hog and let the poppets rollerskate in the Tate Modern (yes, I saw this once).

booge · 21/10/2008 19:45

Ahh now I see the other thread this one makes sense.

Quattrocento · 21/10/2008 19:46

There's something vaguely reminiscent of green eggs and ham here:

"let my children run around in a wedding, at a funeral, in a library, in a restaurant, during their A'level exams."

Nighbynight · 21/10/2008 20:18

YANBU. I frequently take my small children to the National Theatre and the Royal Ballet so that they can run up and down the aisles playing tag during the performances. So culturally uplifting.

expatinscotland · 21/10/2008 20:20

YANBU.

How else are they going to grow into inconsiderate, self-centred and disrespectful adults if they learn such outdated concepts as personal or societal responsibility?

Quattrocento · 21/10/2008 20:23

LOL at National Theatre and Royal Ballet.

You need to take them to a few concerts. They're "revealing Tchaikovsky" at the South Bank. Important to allow a child the right to self-expression, particularly during concerts.

nickytwoooohtimes · 21/10/2008 20:23

YANBU.
I particularly like to take ds to the reference section of the library with his clappers and whistle so that he can express himself freely.
Last week I took him to church on Thirsday so he could participate in a funeral Mass of a complete stranger. It was so sweet to see him ride up and down the aisle on his trike while the grieving family looked on.

ScottishMummy · 21/10/2008 20:30

let the lil dahlings have fitful noise.after all were do selfish adults come from

i suggest some egotistical me-me-me behaviour at quiet occasions,places of worship or in fact any where inappropriate
heaven forbid some ole trout would look sternly or be sour.after all they will be deid soon.

SharpMolarBear · 21/10/2008 20:33

SM you have made me pmsl again
Go on...say deid again...please

SharpMolarBear · 21/10/2008 20:33

ahem
tiny things please tiny minds
but it does amuse me

ScottishMummy · 21/10/2008 20:37

in the style of www.hotmoviesale.com/dvds/20667/1/Taggart-Death-Call-Set.jpgtaggart "ah huve got a deid body on ma hawns"

happy to oblige

SharpMolarBear · 21/10/2008 20:41

I think I turn up and lol every time you say the word on MN

ScottishMummy · 21/10/2008 20:41

deid link.whit a scunner now in the style of
taggart "ah huve got a deid body on ma hawns"

Pennies · 21/10/2008 23:04

PMSL at worthy trolling accusations!

I shall be getting them up in about three hours, giving them each a pair of cymbals and taking them to my local Intensive Care Unit for a visit that the staff and patients therein will no doubt enjoy immensely.

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ScareyBitchFeast · 21/10/2008 23:05

use heelies

Pennies · 21/10/2008 23:08

Excellent idea. Will do.

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Skramble · 21/10/2008 23:14

LOL nothing like a bit of self expresion and declaring "oh he is such a spirited child". What you mean is he is a complete brat and you have lost all control and the plot.

MrsNormanMaine · 21/10/2008 23:26

I like to set the pace for them so I always sprint into funerals ahead. Usually in fancy dress.