I have just shouted at friend who self harms...I feel such a twat!!!!

[needtoask]

i am regular with a name change and not a troll
here goes.....
she is the most adorable person you could ever meet

I love her and we have been friends for years
but she is a compulsive attention seeker
lately the self harming has resulted in myself blowing my top with her and saying what i think

I believe in the saying "You have to be cruel to be kind"

but I feel such a twat

pls dont pounce on me, I really want to do whats best for her

thanks for reading this

congratulations on your pg TBM

latest update

I have not contacted her today(not sure if that was a wise move by me or not)
anyhow that was dh's suggestion

Dh thinks I should wait for her to contact me so we can both have some space

thanks for all your support and all your wise posts

I will keep you updated