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To be pleased that bully who made my like a misery now looks DREADFUL

56 replies

Janos · 08/10/2008 20:31

Yes, AIB VERY U and hideously shallow to boot, I know this.

Saw her pic online after someone directed me to it and said, remember X? Well look at this!

But..she was really foul to me in school. That's my excuse.

OP posts:
UniversallyChallenged · 08/10/2008 22:48

purpleduck and smartiejake - did they recognise you?

NotAnOtter · 08/10/2008 22:52

blueskythinker - what is that phrase you mention?

Jeepney · 09/10/2008 05:09

All the bullies at my school were already ugly, now they are fat and even uglier. It makes me smile

shabster · 09/10/2008 07:04

The knob boy who bullied my son (both now 26yrs old) and made his life utter misery now works at the same place as my lad. BUT now my son is his boss

MrsMattie · 09/10/2008 08:22

Divine justice.

The loud mouthed bitch of a girl who bullied everyone in my year at school is now a fat, shabbily dressed, haggard looking fishwife type with loads of snotty little brats by different men.

Flame me. I couldn't give a fuck. I get immense pleasure from looking at her Facebook profile.

mabanana · 09/10/2008 08:32

So not unreasonable! Enjoy the moment
(blueskythinker - the OP isn't wishing ill on anyone)

TheHedgeWitch · 09/10/2008 08:50

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Lucifera · 09/10/2008 08:51

Schadenfreude isn't wishing ill, tho', it is "taking pleasure in the misfortunes of others" - not exactly willing misfortunes to occur.

OrmIrian · 09/10/2008 09:07

Hmmm.... i think karma isn't all it's cracked up to be. I've spent my life being a reasonably generous kindly soul, and I look like shite! Perhaps there are uncounted millions waiting for me round the corner to make up for it

MorningTownRide · 09/10/2008 11:00

YANBU - A girl from my class was expelled from school for vrious things including lying about being sexually abused.

She blamed me. She got her firends to call me up and heap abuse on me about being fat and ugly. One of them even told my parents who she was when she tried to call me at home (went to boarding school).

She kept friend requesting me on Facebook.

I accepted, and looked at her photos..she was fat hahahahahahahahahaha!!! Then I deleted her from my profile.

happystory · 09/10/2008 11:14

Pity we can't show this to any of our dds who are being bullied. Dd was - a bit- last year- and ds (older) said 'I bet she's fat with huge earrings and an orange face' Dd looked at him in amazement and said -'How did you know?'

VictorianSqualorSquelchNSquirm · 09/10/2008 11:32

I was beaten up by three girls when I was about 14.
They were really vicious, slashed my face with glass and rubbed dirt in it to try and 'ruin my face' (apparently one of their boyfriend's had admitted fancying me)
When I was about 18 I saw this girl.
I am about 3 foot taller than her now
She came over to me and asked me to be friends. I told her I didn't bear grudges etc and she said something like 'I'd never do something like that now' to which I replied 'No, that's right, I'd kick your F*ing head in if you dared try' (not very grown up I know, but the look on her face was wonderful)
I bumped into her a few times in clubs, she was always licking my arse, it's amazing how people can turn into such shitbags.

mabanana · 09/10/2008 11:33

Lucifera, please, I know exactly what schadenfreude means . I was pointing out the difference between the OP and the poster moaning that it wasn't fair.

VictorianSqualorSquelchNSquirm · 09/10/2008 11:36

What difference?
BST didn't say she wished ill on her sister.

purpleduck · 09/10/2008 11:45

universally challeneged - yes, she did recognise me...

hee hee

She ended up breaking my ex's heart...
karma indeed!!!

Jennyisjustknackered · 09/10/2008 11:48

My school bully is also the dentist's receptionist, or should I say, 'Director of Admin'. She was really really fat, and I felt quite smug about it. She has now been on that Lighter Life thing and lost 5 stone. I told her she looked great this morning through gritted teeth.

I decided to try and be the bigger (excuse the pun) person. But really I just want to slap her face and tell her she made my life a misery for two years.

One day I will. Cow.

mabanana · 09/10/2008 11:49

Ok maybe that was a bit snappy, but I hate being patronised. I may well have the wrong SIL thread entirely, and if so, I apologise to BST, but there have been some very nasty ones in the past, including gloating at a SIL's sick baby and hoping she feels bad because she wasn't sufficiently sympathetic about something.

BCNS · 09/10/2008 11:59

YANBU LOL what go around comes around!!

I was an ugly bug at school.. and got bullied for it.. but I was a swan!! and now a lot of the bullies are looking very worse for wear!! good for you!!

Mumi · 09/10/2008 12:24

YANBU! Most of the time it's a mixed blessing I know, but - thank the lord for Facebook

smartiejake · 09/10/2008 12:28

She looked at me as if she vaguely knew me but didn't say anything. I just stared straight at her and smiled smugly as I ordered my food!

whatgoesaround · 09/10/2008 12:35

YANB in the least U

Bullies are scum, I watched a girl who made my life hell at school trudge up and down with the 3 kids she had by 3 different men (none of whom stayed with her)to collect her giro looking dirty messy and knackered beyond her 19 years, while I had a lovely boyfriend, good job and nice things.

PimmsAllRound · 09/10/2008 12:39

UANBU
I know no one will approve but I have to say that when the child who had made my DCs life a living hell for 3 years had the shite kicked out of him at his new high school (broken nose, black eyes fractured jaw) I laughed my fecking head off!!!!!!!!

tessofthedurbervilles · 09/10/2008 12:39

I had one of those moments! Hurrah for this post!!!!! The bully was huge, had loads of urchin children hanging off her and was waddling out of a really rough street smoking a fag....I drove slowly past in my bmw x3....wish kids being bullied could have experienced that moment as it does happen! xx

MortBlackCatResident · 09/10/2008 12:48

You never forget being bullied do you? The girl who made my mum's life hell now packs bags at the local CO OP. Guess which till my mum always goes to?

Bucharest · 09/10/2008 12:55

Am so glad it's not just me who follows people round FB gloating at how old and frumpy they look!

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