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Does anyone with more than one child, or a child older than say 5 object to the term PFB

83 replies

Twiglett · 22/09/2008 14:05

just wondering

OP posts:
lucykate · 22/09/2008 19:50

no, i have a pfb, the rest are just feral

LavenderTea · 22/09/2008 20:06

Nope. Think it perfectly sums up some people and some grown up PFB's too. Don't think my FB is treated like a PFB except for the 772 photos we took of her between 0-3 months....

LavenderTea · 22/09/2008 20:07

.......And that's only cos I wanted her to be a child model and earn her keep from as early and age as possible .....

She didn't make it yet though, so I'm still keeping her child allowance....

hecate · 25/09/2008 13:52

No. Because I remember how I was when I had my first, and I was the same! Most first time mums do have the whole pfb thing going on and it's normal. I think of it quite affectionately actually.

policywonk · 25/09/2008 13:55

This premise rather implies that parents with just one child are doomed to lifelong silliness. Which is just a tad unfair. I do think some people use the term in a sneering way.

VictorianSqualor · 25/09/2008 14:14

I think of PFB syndrome as an allowance to eb a bit psycho with your first child tbh.

I mean most of the time it's in a 'ah, it's her first, give her a break, she'll wake up with a start like the rest of us did'.

It's normally only used when people are being completely barking and forgetting that, in fact, people have been having for babies for hundreds and hundreds , in fact THOUSANDS of years.

I have to say though I started of a right-hard-nosed disciplinarian beeyatch with my first child and have gotten progressively mellower and more earth motherish with each subsequent one, wtf is that called? (apart from lazy)

oh, in answer to the op. Nope.

bubblagirl · 25/09/2008 14:18

mine is most definatly pfb so no

blueshoes · 25/09/2008 14:18

No. If you read parenting magazines and such, they seem to take such a sanitised health and safety view of parenting. So with dd, I thought I had to sterilise a dummy before every use - I remember handing a dummy to a midwife to give to dd and proudly telling her I had already sterilised it. Would have been happy to be labeled PFB as that would mean I could revert to being the slattern I am. Most instructive to observe parents of multi-borns.

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