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To think smoking should be BANNED???

285 replies

Mum2OliverJames · 16/09/2008 17:27

Or it at least should be taken back into the pubs where it doesnt effect me, they cant all sit together in their deseise ridden smoke.

I am SOOO sick of walking behind someone who is smoking or walking through their putrid cloud of smoke, i hate it for my DS to, the smell makes me SICK, and i mean it actually makes me feel like i want to vomit!

Why cant smokers just realise how much they stink, you can smell a smoker a mile off.

I also hate how when someone speaks to you in the street, if they are smoking they will put their cigerette behind their back whilst talking to DS, like that stops him from breathing in you cancer fumes!!!

I think if someone is going to smoke they should at least do it where its not going to have an effect on anybody else (like in their own homes)

i dont think iabu, i think the smokers are v. much bu to expect everybody else to put up with their disgustingness - i think its v selfish.

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onager · 16/09/2008 21:45

We are defensive because people like you are so offensive. Of course it's unhealthy for the smoker. Many things are, but not to you outside despite your opinion.

You will not complain to car drivers who are a genuine danger to you and your DS when outside will you? You will say "that's necessary so I don't mind in the least if it poisons my kids" but the real reason is that you know you will be alone against a huge majority.

Personally I haven't smoked outside in years, but I reserve the right to and if you don't like it then tough.

Mum2OliverJames · 16/09/2008 21:46

why does it has to be spent on anyhting like that cant you just save it and then when you see something you really want, you will be able to afford it.

Q for smokers - how much do you spend on cigerettes a week?

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Monkeytrousers · 16/09/2008 21:47

and don;t forget we live in a polluted environment. The science says there is ZERO risk to people exposed to haphazard passive smoke. You are far more likely to see problems coming from living in a city or large town/beside a main road than the odd wiff of a tab

fryalot · 16/09/2008 21:47

can I ask, please, OP, why did you start a thread in AIBU if you were completely unprepared to accept that you were, in fact, being unreasonable, and had no intention of altering your viewpoint?

Mum2OliverJames · 16/09/2008 21:49

i dont drive, i walk everywhere, its much better for you!
i have smoked - its disgusting!

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Mum2OliverJames · 16/09/2008 21:52

squonk
i honestly thought that ppl would agree with me. thought that the only ppl that would object would be the smokers.
i prob am being unreasonable about it being banned but i dont think i am being unreasonable about being peed off that DS and i have to put up with the smell in town

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evangelina · 16/09/2008 21:55

I would quite like to see a smoking ban for the sake of future generations. I'm not intolerant of smokers (my DH is one and would love to give up), but who does it benefit apart from the corporate giants? If it was illegal, those that really want to smoke would find a way to do it but it would help the millions who are sucked into it at a young age with all the health and expense implications of it.
There's nothing wrong with discussing radical ideas. A smoking bad in pubs would once have been considered very radical. In this month's Easy Living, Liz Hurley said that many top cancer specialists think that one day alcohol may be illegal due to its health implications (I think she said generally rather than just cancer patients but could be wrong).

SmallShips · 16/09/2008 21:55

do you smell it that often when walking through town then? I can understand you walking threw it once or twice on a trip out, but not enough to get so irrate as to start a thread about it?

Monkeytrousers · 16/09/2008 21:55

Here here Squonk - 'tis the sport!!

SmallShips · 16/09/2008 21:58

IMO in ten years time or so smoking will be so socially unacceptable that future generations will look at it alot differently then society today. Look how much smoking laws have changed recentely, it will only get more strict.

expatinscotland · 16/09/2008 21:59

Why do ppl who smoke always get defensive about smoking?

I don't smoke.

But I do get defensive at sanctimonious, uptight, completely unreasonable folks.

'i also hate it when you see ppl who are living on benifits smoking, its so expensive, they could be spending that moeny on worthwile things not just putting it out in the ashtray.'

Yes, for example, literacy courses so we can ban members who use 'ppl' instead of people from using the board because they're so lazy and selfish.

Dalrymps · 16/09/2008 22:01

YANBU! I totally agree.

Mum2OliverJames · 16/09/2008 22:02

i dont usually smell it that often but i had a busy day today and it seemed like everywhere i walked there was a smoker walking in front of me, and it does make me feel SICK, nauseous and lightheaded.

does this not matter?

no, it doesnt matter that i dont like the smell, just the the smoker can have his/her right to smoke

what about my right to not smell it?

thats what annoys me so much, is that so that one person can have their cigerettte loads of people have to put up with the smell?

How is that fair?

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Mum2OliverJames · 16/09/2008 22:05

expat you better go on one of the course then cos its spelt worthwhile not worthwile

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Mum2OliverJames · 16/09/2008 22:05

expat you better go on one of the courses then cos its spelt worthwhile not worthwile

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MeAndMyMonkey · 16/09/2008 22:05

Mum2OJ I think you should just get a big old banner saying 'Down with this sort of thing' and just carry it everywhere.
Everything should be banned, right?
I love that you even criticize smokers who try and be considerate by holding their fags away from your ds too. lol.

Remotew · 16/09/2008 22:09

I smoke. I don't have constant colds or coughs, good lung capacity, white teeth. The smell doesnt linger on me as I have to smoke in the open air. Sorry but not everyone gets ill through smoking.

I know you wish we'd all die soon but its not the case. Won't affect your little DD to pass an open air smoker either.

YABVU

ethanchristopher · 16/09/2008 22:09

u feel light headedd because it sends carbon monoxide down your lungs which means the oxygen isnt being transporteed

Mum2OliverJames · 16/09/2008 22:09

that was specifically this woman i know, i asked her not to smoke near ds and she just held her cigerette behind her!

it made me so

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Mum2OliverJames · 16/09/2008 22:14

i love how smokers are convinced the smell doesnt linger - in fact it makes me actually laugh because they honestly belive it lol

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BettySwollux · 16/09/2008 22:19

I smoke, drink alchohol and drive a car.

Fucking hell, I should just be shot really!!

Remotew · 16/09/2008 22:23

I think it lingers on some people more that others. I've been told many times that I don't smell of smoke even if I did it wouldn't stop me doing something that is perfectly legal.

It doesn't linger on your breath either. That's another misconception. I know as I've kissed smokers when I've given up for months.

steviesgirl · 16/09/2008 22:24

YABU!

Get off your high horse dear. I'm sure not even you are perfect. And as to judge smokers as being selfish. It's just a bad habit FFS.

Some people are so judgemental, that whoever crosses their path would be damned if they do and damned if they don't. I'm glad I don't know you personally and I don't even smoke.

You need to chill.

expatinscotland · 16/09/2008 22:26

erm, M2OJ, if you read my post, it's a direct quotation from you, cut and pasted, you are the one who misspelled the word.

sign up for anger management whilst you are there.

Mum2OliverJames · 16/09/2008 22:32

FFS I OR DS DO NOT WANT TO SMELL IT
what is wrong with that?
im gonna start carrying some of that oust around with me and start spraying smokers with it and when they say 'wtf you doin' ill be like 'its not v nice is it?'

[laughing manically emotion]

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