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to not want my mother's breasts in my face????

57 replies

sosowrong · 09/09/2008 15:49

Ok, I am seriously angry about this and have to share. Have namechanged through sheer embarassment as am mates with some mnetters in RL.

Long story short, I have been b/feeding DS for 12 weeks now. My mother has always had a problem with it - thinks it's wrong, dirty, disgustintg etc. Anyway, she's been staying with us for a week, constantly commenting on what a dirty mummy I am for "rubbing my breasts in DS' face" - basically encouraging him to latch on.

Yesterday evening I was dozing on the sofa and was woken up by something brushing my face - I opened my eyes and my mother was crouched by the sofa rubbibng her bare breasts in my face!!!! "Now you know how DS feels, iy's horrible isn't it??" she said.

I still feel sick to the pit of my stomach thinking about it. She's always been a bit mental but this, she's crossed a real line. I can't bear to be around her now.

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OliverClothesOff · 09/09/2008 15:50

is this for real?

MARGOsBeenPlayingWithMyNooNoo · 09/09/2008 15:50

omg! I'm lost for words.

beansmum · 09/09/2008 15:51

I feel a bit sick.

andiem · 09/09/2008 15:51

chuck her out
what a horrible horrible thing to do to you
it is emotional and physical abuse I feel so for you
I would just tell her that her behaviour is not acceptable and she is to leave

MaryAnnSingleton · 09/09/2008 15:52

!!! she is barking ! that is appalling

daftpunk · 09/09/2008 15:52

back to the point i made on my thread earlier...everyone on munsnet is a bit nuts, and this proves it!

poppy34 · 09/09/2008 15:52

I am not surprised...is she still staying with you? you really have got to say something as she has stepped WAY over the line here and farinkly you do wonder where it ends

beansmum · 09/09/2008 15:52

Is she still staying with you?! Tell her to leave.

RhinestoneCowgirl · 09/09/2008 15:53

That's outrageous behaviour - does she have mental health issues?

differentID · 09/09/2008 15:53

chuck her out and tell her not to come back until she grows up!

harleyd · 09/09/2008 15:53
Hmm
MrsMattie · 09/09/2008 15:53

is she mentally unstable? She sounds it! So sorry for you. Can you tell her to please leave your house???

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onceinalifetime · 09/09/2008 15:54

Was she drunk? Sorry, it's your mum - tell her to go home and leave you alone.

sosowrong · 09/09/2008 15:55

She is a bit strange - my brother told her once that when she was younger she faked appendicitis so they would operate on her. She has done quite a few other weird things over the years too but nothing quite like this.

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more · 09/09/2008 15:55

Ewwwww

wuzzlefraggle · 09/09/2008 15:56

i second the

thats just grim - why the hell would someone do that???!!!???!!!

LittleMissBliss · 09/09/2008 15:56

That is bloody awful. You poor thing! I think you need to get some help for your mum she is out of order! Carry on with bf you are doing a great thing for your baby.

AphroditeInHerNightie · 09/09/2008 15:56

speechless

Woman has issues.

more · 09/09/2008 15:56

Does she find this funny?

Sparkletastic · 09/09/2008 15:56

I'm fervently praying that you are trolling.

If not - tell her to go NOW and that you need a very long break from her.

LouMacca · 09/09/2008 15:57

Your mum obviously has some issues.

This is awful for you. Sending you (hugs)

wuzzlefraggle · 09/09/2008 15:57

Sparkle - I'm sort of hoping this is a bit of trolling too as I can't believe that someones mum would do this kind of thing!

Sparkletastic · 09/09/2008 15:59

Quite wuzzlefraggle!! I'm all for a bit of light-hearted winding up on a rainy p.m. but this is soooooooo yack that I don't want it to be true...

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