to be v pissed off that dh has a condom in his wallet?

[petitmaman]

Found condom in dh's wallet this morning. we don't use them. i know he had one in his bed side table for years but why transfer it to his wallet? it is about 3 years out of date anyway and i dont think he would cheat on me.
the only thing i can think is that he wants to look the big man in front of his friends, but if that is it then that is seriously immature. and who looks through his wallet anyway? (apart from me )
i just find it really odd. thoughts please.

sorry petitmaman his exuse doesn't ring true. Anyway what kind of nights out/ times does he have with his friends if they are in the position to be copping off with other women?

tell his friends to buy their own damn condoms

tell him you may or may not have stuck a pin through it and he will never know

if any of his 'friends' get a girl up the duff they will know who to blame

God, how very strange.

Speaking as a guy I've never and never even known anyone carry round a condom in their wallet even when they were on the pull! I mean, seriously, it's not like you're not able to find them in any bloke's toilet and even if you were on the pull, just how stupid would you look when you take your wallet out to get the next drinks in and a condom flies out? "Oh er, sorry love, was just in case we, uh, mmmm.... I'll get my coat, shall I?"

I don't know what to say except that his excuse sounds like bollocks to me, but then again, I can't think of any good reason why he'd be carrying one around anyway... and besides, assuming his brain isn't actually the size of a pea even if he was planning to sleep around would he really carry the evidence around in his wallet?

I thought about putting a condom in my purse once so that dh and I could have spontaneous sex when out and about

then I realised that the last opportunity for that I could remember was in 1995

Whats the latest on this?? I would be very suspicious if any guy i was in a relationship with was carrying condoms!!

i wouldn't have a problem with it - as he said it's incase his friend needs one. me and all my friends do this just incase.

If the Condom is out of date whats the point in using it surely he is not that simple?

petitmaman I hope you are ok?

Personlly I would be bloody furious!

DH has never carried condoms, which is why we have DS1!!

Just pop a tube of spemicide jelly in your bag, when he asks why you have it, tell him, same reason you have a condom in your wallet

this is weird.i think i might be in big trouble with my oh if she looks through my wallet (altough i have no idea why she would)

i've been with her 3 years now.have never cheated but i'm pretty sure there's been a condom in their for the guts of 2 years even though we no longer use them.

and it's not a bravado thing or to show off to my mates (no idea why they'd see inside my wallet either). i'm pretty sure it's there for the same reason there is a receipt for a lunch from god knows when, the business card of my doctor who passed away 5 years ago and a train ticket that expired months ago. it'#s because i'm crap at clearing out my wallet and for some reason despite not hoarding in any other area of life my wallet is like a mini-time capsule and if anyone needs a train time-table from 2002 i'd be pretty confident i could find you one in it.