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To want to kick DP square in the nuts for being such a selfish twat!!!

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mamadiva · 08/08/2008 11:09

ARGH! I'm so sick of DP am actually considering telling him to piss off! We have been together 7 years and have a 2YO DS. DP is 23 and is such an immature seflish prat! I work part time only earning about £380 a month and DP works full time and only earns about £200 a week after tax. Working tax credits go into his bank and he refuses to buy bread or milk or anything with it as he's saving it up apparnetly, last night he refused to buy bread even though I have no money at all this week so will have to go without until later on. He saves the tax credits (for going to the footbakll with his mates) which I have only just found out he also takes £30 a week out of his wages before giving thme to me. Even though we are trying to pay off debts and I just can't afford for him to do it but whenever I say anything he just starts telling me to f*k off and shut the f*k up blah de blah. We end up in a huge argument about it, last night he was going to the garage to get fags I asked him to get milk and bread he said no he only had £2.50 for fags as he isnt touching the ither money, when I told him that was out of order he just stuck his finger up at me right in my face told me too fuck off and shut the door behind him. Sorry for ranting but am fuming the more Im thinking about it.

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mamadiva · 08/08/2008 13:06

LP?

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Eilatan · 08/08/2008 13:07

Write everything down that you spend a month. EVERYTHING. Show him. Agree on your individual inputs and a how the household expenses are going to be managed. You can do it, be firm, calm and fair. You're the grown up in the family

XXXX

VinegarTits · 08/08/2008 13:07

opps TPL, still rude of you to dismiss her like you did....

Anyway off to pack for my holiday to Italy tomorrow.

mamadiva · 08/08/2008 13:07

I explained beforehand that he gives me money he is not incharge of how much money I spend and I also explained that my son does not see it.

So I asked if she had actually read the thread. Nowt wrong with that in my eyes.

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mamadiva · 08/08/2008 13:09

vt enjoy your hols you lucky bugger

eilatan I think I may have to do it again Ive done it all before but maybe anoither try might kick him into touch therwise hes going to have to go!

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Eilatan · 08/08/2008 13:11

MD - good gal

VT - Italy eh? Not Australia then?

jillyj · 08/08/2008 13:18

how much do you spend on cigs per week??

TheProvincialLady · 08/08/2008 13:41

I didn't mean to come back to this thread but the reason I said about your son knowing that his father is rude to his mother is that children pick up on these things, it is impossible to hide it from them (I speak from experience). And if your partner gets to choose how much of the money he keeps for his own entertainment and how much he gives you for housekeeping - which is exactly what my FIl does, it's like 1953 in their household - then in effect he is in charge. But anyway.

Tas1 · 08/08/2008 17:58

BAG, DOOR, BYE BYE.!!!!

mamadiva · 09/08/2008 10:59

Provincial - I'm sorry for what I said yesterday. I didn't mean to come across so nasty I'm just having a rough time of it the now. Everything seems to be going wrong in my life just now. So I guess I just sort of snapped when I seen your post.

Like I said I do apologise.

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TheProvincialLady · 09/08/2008 20:30

Oh that's ok Mamdiva, thanks for the apology. I hope things improve for you soon.

flubdub · 09/08/2008 21:22

Tas1

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