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To want to change careers from nursing into teaching for better work life balance

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TwinklyRoseTurtle · 25/10/2026 15:19

I’m aware both are highly stressful careers, I’m quite senior in my role and would be taking roughly a 15K pay cut. However it keeps niggling in the back of mind, from posts I’ve seen this on previously I’ve seen it commented that teaching means taking work home- in my nursing role this is also very common- you never switch off even on days off. I’m finding the shift work increasingly difficult but not just that, I still like helping people it’s my favourite part of the job but I just feel like nursing is not for me anymore, I’ve still got a long career ahead of me and can’t deny the fact I would prefer Monday- Friday hours and all half terms off for childcare also. I’m interested in hearing from anyone else who has done this? Is it an unrealistic expectation for work/life balance?

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Stradivari12 · 26/10/2026 08:09

I'm a secondary school teacher - science. I've got a good work life balance now, but it's takes a good few years to get there. I'd also say that work life balance is ok but it's still a stressful job. Like the other posters say, how about a school nurse? Better hours. But again, it's not in stressful, you have a very busy day as a school nurse.

Teachingversusnursing · 26/10/2026 08:10

HoppingPavlova · 26/10/2026 07:21

I don’t want to do another nursing job, I’ve done both acute/ community and I just want a job that’s not life and death anymore honestly

I have an acquaintance who swapped from community nursing to a school vaccination nurse. It was an earlier start as she had to go to some centralised location to pick up the jabs and outreach morning then drive to the school, but was all over by lunch, then would drop coolboxes back and the day was over. Then she would enter all the student vax records into central system on non school days. She didn’t work school hols. It really wasn’t a life or death job. Have you considered stuff like this?

Do you have any idea how boring being a vaccination nurse is? Most nurses do the job because it varied and in most cases unpredictable or in some cases exceedingly unpredictable. I think it’s the huge variety that draws people to it. Friends who’ve gone off to be vaccination nurses do it either because they are completely burnt out and need a period of calm or they have physical health problems it’s a job staff are frequently redeployed too, are retired or are coming up for retirement and just want somewhere easy or mums with school age children looking for often a term time job. HCSW are increasingly being employed at vaccinators because ultimately it’s a pretty basic job.
The majority of nurses are now graduates contrary to what many think we don’t just mop brows or bow and scrape to consultants we are making complex and life changing decisions about peoples lives. Vaccinating people just isn’t going to cut it for most experienced nurses.

Teachingversusnursing · 26/10/2026 08:16

School nursing in many cases is very CP heavy which is not for everyone.
Ditto health visiting also suggested on here.
Ive know quite a few friends and colleagues who’ve gone off and done both with HV all left at the end of the training the amount of CP and responsibly associated with it was overwhelming, more stayed in school nursing but at least 50% dropped out at the end,
We’re a weird bunch nurses you have to find you’re niche unfortunately that niche, an area that suits you just because you are happy in one area doesn’t mean you’ll be happy somewhere else.
I once looked at a job that on paper looked ideal I love techy stuff reading gases changing treatment accordingly fiddling with equipment to get the optimum etc did a few bank shifts there before applying loathed it.

Cheese55 · 26/10/2026 08:22

TwinklyRoseTurtle · 25/10/2026 15:39

No, I’m looking at completing 1 years PGCE with QTS. I have extensively looked into it. Yes aware it’s salaried - just divided it by 12, to work out roughly what I would earn

Don't you need a degree in the subject you're going to teach?

MrsMurphyIWish · 26/10/2026 08:28

Cheese55 · 26/10/2026 08:22

Don't you need a degree in the subject you're going to teach?

For teaching in England, you only need an A-level and sometimes not even that if a school needs a body.

iwishtoo · 26/10/2026 08:53

SugarMiceInTheRain · 25/10/2026 21:17

I moved into secondary teaching recently and would not recommend it at all! I work 55+ hours a week and am permanently stressed. So many of the kids are so rude and disrespectful and parents constantly complain. At 45 I feel I can't retrain again but have no idea what else to do, so feel stuck. I wouldn't be surprised if I burn out within the next couple of years.

@SugarMiceInTheRain I'm genuinely interested to know if anyone warned you about the negatives? And if they did what was your thought process about continuing to retrain?

stringbean · 26/10/2026 08:53

I would be looking at clinical research; possibly Medical Science Liaison or similar, with a pharmaceutical company. Or a role as a research nurse initially would give you an understanding of the basics of clinical trials and you could get into clinical trial monitoring via that route. These roles do require travel though.

monicaspurpledoor · 26/10/2026 08:57

You could be me! I have looked into it.
My brother in law has started as a teacher in a college and doing his qualification along side his work.
I qualified 16 years ago, I work in community also and have done for the past 10 years. Worked as an NP Recently took a pay cut as the job I applied for as a specialist was only 24 hours. So now I’m doing bank to top up (unsociable hours including nights).
my friend qualified as a primary school teacher and she earns more than me (yes that’s with the calculations).
I think people think community nursing is once the job is done. It’s done.
I’ve lost count how many times (including last week when I finished at 7 rather than 5) that I work over my hours as there has been some emergency when I’ve visited someone…I can’t just walk out the house and say…I finish at 5 or just not see my other patient as I have finished.
Im working on yet another uni module, doing assignments etc (in my own time) this is the third one in 2 years.
I’m ringing patients on my day off to confirm visits, ensuring prescriptions have been delivered etc.
Then to top my money up I’ve worked Saturday night shift at my old job (with no pay for the extra hour) and I need to arrange childcare for the holidays!

I get what you mean about still wanting to help people etc and that teaching may be the thing! im not saying it wouldn’t be easy. But in the long run I feel it might be better than if i work up the nursing ladder (making complex clinical
decisions with a 10 min appointment slot, as that is the reality of GP land).

endofthelinefinally · 26/10/2026 09:08

stringbean · 26/10/2026 08:53

I would be looking at clinical research; possibly Medical Science Liaison or similar, with a pharmaceutical company. Or a role as a research nurse initially would give you an understanding of the basics of clinical trials and you could get into clinical trial monitoring via that route. These roles do require travel though.

There isn't much travel if you are a research nurse based in hospital, mostly training courses. The drug company trial monitors have to do a huge amount of travel. They don't have to be nurses. All the ones I worked with were young and single. I did a few trips to Europe, usually just a couple of days. Lots of day training courses usually in Birmingham or London.

Teachingversusnursing · 26/10/2026 09:29

stringbean · 26/10/2026 08:53

I would be looking at clinical research; possibly Medical Science Liaison or similar, with a pharmaceutical company. Or a role as a research nurse initially would give you an understanding of the basics of clinical trials and you could get into clinical trial monitoring via that route. These roles do require travel though.

Im not being negative about all these suggestions honestly but you would loose your NHS pension which is a big factor to take into consideration especially as you get your older which assuming the OP is.
This may not bother her but I’m single so size of pension is a big factor and looked at working in a hospice run of course by a charity the pension was good but not as good as my NHS one will be if I work to 67.
There are so many factors to take into consideration.
OP you can try anything and always come back in f it’s a disaster.

Norwaygirl · 26/10/2026 11:32

Aubin7 · 25/10/2026 23:44

I get nursing is stressful but teaching can be. Thetre is more autonomy in teaching and it's a lot better paid than nursing but I don't think you'd find you have a better balance for at least 5 years.

I am not certain without checking but I think nursing is about the same pay or a bit more than teaching. Teaching is a LOT more hours however.

Norwaygirl · 26/10/2026 11:33

MrsMurphyIWish · 26/10/2026 08:28

For teaching in England, you only need an A-level and sometimes not even that if a school needs a body.

You need a degree to teach.

MrsMurphyIWish · 26/10/2026 11:38

Norwaygirl · 26/10/2026 11:33

You need a degree to teach.

I’m a teacher. An A-level in the subject you want to teach. Don’t necessarily need a degree in the subject. Of course a degree is needed and QTS.

Boleynforsoup · 26/10/2026 11:57

Don’t do it. I’ve spent the first morning of my half term going to the drs for SSRIs for the anxiety and depression being a teacher in the current climate has caused. I’ve been teaching 16 years, I am not a stranger to hard work, and the extra hours but this last year has been something else. I don’t sleep and I cry daily, and I love this job and the kids (even the tricky ones) but the workload and pressure is slowly killing me.

Aubin7 · 26/10/2026 12:23

Norwaygirl · 26/10/2026 11:32

I am not certain without checking but I think nursing is about the same pay or a bit more than teaching. Teaching is a LOT more hours however.

According to Google, a nurse at the top of the scale earns 42k. I'm not a nurse, though. I'm a teacher (not promoted) and earn 54k (plus 3k responsibility allowance). You do have to do extra hours but after a few years, you have to find ways of prioritising. I have a really good HT. Some HTs demand too much. I try to get asmuch of my work done in school.

Stompythedinosaur · 26/10/2026 12:49

Going into teaching for a better work/life balance is absolutely insane. I wouldn't.

HoppingPavlova · 26/10/2026 12:52

@Teachingversusnursing The majority of nurses are now graduates contrary to what many think we don’t just mop brows or bow and scrape to consultants we are making complex and life changing decisions about peoples lives. Vaccinating people just isn’t going to cut it for most experienced nurses

Thanks for that utter rant. Working with nurses for decades (I’m the one they ‘don’t just bow and scrape to’), I know exactly what they do. Also know one who went and did this and was perfectly happy not making any complex decisions, working set day hours Mon-Fri with all school hols off, so essentially only working 40 weeks a year. Their full intent was to happily ride it out for the last 20 years to retirement as also suited them after their kids left school. It might not be your cup of tea, or some others but it is valid option for some and you don’t get to speak for all nurses, they are not the Borg.

Aethelred · 26/10/2026 12:52

Lots of teachers are leaving because of the poor work-life balance. You get school holidays (not all paid - the wages are just split across the year - but I always ended up working during the holidays). In teaching there is a lot of work that can eat into the time you get at home. My experience was primary age but I have friends that are / were secondary teachers and they find it really stressful, have had time off due to mental health and do lots of work at home.

NurseButtercup · 26/10/2026 12:53

Thequeenofcheese · 25/10/2026 17:18

I am a nurse also desperate to leave the profession. I know that you are trying to be helpful, but it is infuriating when you ask people for ways to leave the profession and ALL they suggest is other alternative nursing roles. Even when the OP or whoever you are chatting to has made it abundantly clear that they no longer wish to be a nurse in any form.

I truly believe that nursing is a trap; they pay you just about enough to stay as they are aware you will not be paid more elsewhere. Furthermore, the cost of retraining as something else or restarting a new career will be too much of a financial hit for most nurses, particularly those with families and caring responsibilities. The initial salary is ok if you are in your twenties and newly graduated, but the ugly truth is that the majority of salaries for nurses will not exceed £45k in their lifetimes.

Many of us have tried multiple clinical options and have still inferred that it is not for us. Yes, I did a short stint as a PIP assessor, it was hellish and I ended up on SSRIs. It The amount of times I've heard "oh why don't you go into community nursing" (great so I will go back to band 5 and lose all of my unsociable hours) or "why don't you teach nursing in a college" as if there are so many teaching posts available in colleges.

Edited

I'm trying to get out of nursing and I'm currently working on an application for PiP Assessor role. I'm sorry you had such an awful experience. Are you able to share a top line summary of why it was so hellish? I'm a surgical nurse and I'm very very drawn to the idea of swapping ward life with writing a couple of reports from the comfort of my home.

Chloe4567 · 26/10/2026 13:01

I’m a nurse currently working as a band 6 in nurse education. I’ve had a few band 7 roles but they haven’t been what I wanted to do longer term. I’ve been able to do a funded PGCE in my current job so for me I felt it was worth moving to the band 6 role.

It’s possible to teach health and social care at a college without QTS. The pay isn’t great but it could be a way in to give you the chance to try it out. They may pay for you to complete your PGCE too.

mindutopia · 26/10/2026 13:04

It’s sounds like you’re doing a lot of defending how you’re already used to a stressful job, being undervalued, taking work home evenings, weekends, holidays because that’s the norm in nursing.

So why the hell are you looking for a job with similar problems?

Retrain in something that’s properly 9-5, no bringing work home, no violence on the job, minimal safeguarding issues, low stress, better pay.

It’s not teaching, but there would be loads of other things depending on what you enjoy doing.

TVa · 26/10/2026 13:09

I know a few people who became teachers as a second career later in life. They all left teaching and went back to their old jobs or similar jobs.

There are always attempts to improve to work life balance, but something else gives and another aspect of your teaching life becomes harder.

It’s never ended, soul destroying and I really wouldn’t recommend it unless you are genuinely passionate. And the older you get, the more exhausting the job becomes. I am a secondary teacher of about 15 years.

I would suggest you perhaps take another role within the NHS.

Fiddlesticks1 · 26/10/2026 14:01

Only read the headline. Better work life balance. Don’t think so. I’d stick to nursing if I was you.

Postjurywoes · 26/10/2026 14:03

TwinklyRoseTurtle · 25/10/2026 15:29

I currently do a lot of paperwork and study days in my own time too at present

Why?

Norwaygirl · 26/10/2026 14:22

MrsMurphyIWish · 26/10/2026 11:38

I’m a teacher. An A-level in the subject you want to teach. Don’t necessarily need a degree in the subject. Of course a degree is needed and QTS.

Yes, that's what I meant. A degree is needed but not necessarily in your subject. Not sure how academies work though because local to us an unqualified teacher is a Head of a primary school.

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